theres this guy who i was very close to... we were extremely good friends for 2 months ,, sharing secrets getting close (we neva met tht often) its lik best frnds.. he went to london for studies in sept..it all like drifted apart.. i mailed him n i neva got a reply for lik 2 n half months...i called him n got thro a wrong no... i was heart broken.. i cried soo many times thinkin about the awesome time ive had with him and now tht its like over... i din expect this from him.. he dint even bother to get back in touch.. i left a lil rude kinda msg on his public blog so he realised n got back to me sayin hes begging sorry for acting so rude and tht he was busy adjusting there.. we kept in touch like this for a month..n now hes back here from london since 8 days n yet hes not bothered to get in touch..i felt soooo bad..theres nothing i can do...i dont want our relation to end... but i cant stand this behaviour...because in the 1st case i dont know what went wrong for such behavioue form him
2007-01-07 16:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You take the iniatitive to contact him. No egoes. Then talk out the entire episode. If he avoids you or during the talking you find him disinterested or flirting with you, then disconnect soon and move on in life. But please make sure that YOU go with an open mind to talk to him.
2007-01-07 20:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you might be able to save the situation...he could truely be trying to adjust....at least i hope that's how it is for you
i had a similar thing happen with this girl i asked out, the only difference was while she was gone and when she got back she never spoke to me again....it's been 7 months now and still nothing, which is frustrating :-/
i know how you feel, if it doesnt shape up you need to move on, other wise it will hurt for while
so i'd just give him the benefit of the doubt and give him a call...but if it starts to go sour your best bet is to stop trying for a while :-/
Sorry
I hope it works out for ya though, good luck!
2007-01-07 17:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Runningtom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should have sex with him and create a sex starved monster who stalks you everywhere and won't leave you alone with text messages and phone call's and e-mail stating he want's you to have his baby's and as many as possible and have a hot bath ready for him when he get's home from work and a home cooked meal ready also so he can just go right to bed and tell you to clean the house in the morning before he leaves again and get's a slezzy motel with some bar bag or lot lizzard oh im just kidding be patiant he will show up sooner than you think and you can show him what this as#@%$^& hole sent you if its mean't to be it will happen but keep looking im sure some lucky guy will find you and you will forget all about him in no time and wont remember his name because you will find your true love it just take's time to find the right shoe that fit's with those comfortable pair of sox you got allready
2007-01-07 17:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Randall63 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont jump into assumptions that he has been avoiding you. you really dont know what his probs are like. the ONLY solution to this is to sit and talk because true friends are very costly and difficult to get. you both go outf for lunch and talk. try to understand what was his problem there in london and why is he acting weird. may be this gives way to more understanding between you both.
2007-01-07 17:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Adam Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has got someone better then u or someone might have passed some false information to him about u to break ur relationship with him
But dear don't loose hope he might be planning 4 some surprises 4 u!!!!!!!
gud luck sweety..
2007-01-07 17:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is really having problems with adjusting there or he has just found someone better than you..The chance of the latter being true are high.
2007-01-07 17:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by sudheesh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...maybe your looking for more in the "friendship" than he is...or is willing to give.....dont ruin a good friendship....those are hard to come by.... if he wants more....and the "BOTH" of you make that decision then fine....dont pressure him...if he's not trying to be with you like that then you should respect his wishes...you would want somebody to do the same for you....don't put on too much pressure..... or you won't be in contact with him at ALL!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-01-07 17:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seem's like he is not interested. I would move on
2007-01-07 17:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by tmerring64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new one,
2007-01-07 17:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋