Questions about sex?

Question

I just recently lost my virginity and I'm still a little unsure about some things. I have some questions.

1) How long does it usually last for? Whats a normal amount of time?

2) Are girls supposed to orgasm too?

3) How long til a guy can "go" again?

i'd appreciate answers and not opinions on what i should be doing. thanks.

justin- why are you being so mean? its just questions?

Answer 1

1. Depends on his experience and penile sensitivity. Actual penetration from 2 mins - 30 mins. (I've had more and less) The entire act of having sex can last hours. It includes everything leading up to the act, the act itself, and the after cuddling and caressing.

2. Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't. A considerate lover makes sure his partner has an orgasm, but inexperienced lovers sometimes don't know that they should. In the end your orgasm is your responsibility.

3. Depends on age. Anywhere from 5 mins. - 1 hour. The younger the less time it takes for recovery.

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Health notes for the newly active:
1. Cover both ends on birth control : condom for him, and hormonal birth control for you. (extra protection against pregnancy and coverage against STDs)
2. After sex get up, clean up, and urinate. If you should have painful or burning urination a day or so after sex you have probably got a UTI (urinary track infection). Buy some Uristat medication in your local pharmacy (non-prescription) and drink LOTS of water and cranberry juice.
3. Now that you are sexually active you must have yearly GYN check-ups. You never know what the body will do. It's not much fun but it is good for you to keep an eye on your health.

Answer 2

How old are you??
1) How long does it usually last for? Whats a normal amount of time?
Anywhere from a couple of seconds to hoours depending on the couple

2) Are girls supposed to orgasm too?
Yes but for a girl to orgasm the first few times is not common. best advice: relax and remember sex is about communication

3) How long til a guy can "go" again?
Depends on the guy I can go agin within minutes (sometimes I don't even stop) and some guys can't go again for a while

Answer 3

I feel bad that the person you lost your virginity to could not answer these questions for you... Maybe it was his first time also. Everyone is different... Some men can last a very long time others explode after a couple of mintues... Not all women have orgasm's and about 99% do not on the first time. And each guy is different with going again 20 mintues to one hour is normal.

Answer 4

1. time varies for every person, there really is no rule on that.

2. DEFINITELY. altho most females DO NOT orgasm from just intercourse. you need direct stimulation of clitoris usually. if you are not getting to orgasm, try rubbing clit as u are having sex. not only will it feel good, but it will also turn on your partner.

3. again, its different for all guys. some take all day, others need a few mins, and some stay hard after orgasm. all depends on ur partner. if u want to help him go again sooner, try some rubbing, kissing, and other things to turn him on.

Answer 5

Sex can last any amout of time thats up to the people involved and the guys stamina.
Gurls usally dont orgasm right away but can. Have the guy move around to help you feel good.
Guys are each diffrent so that will be up to him.

Sex is a big responsiblity keep that in mind. Protection and the pill are a must!!!!!!!! Be careful

Answer 6

1)if your teenagers 10-30Min's if your an adult, it depends on your comfort level and how long the guy can perform in bed.

2)yes, if you haven't had one yet. Buy some sex books and start learning different positions, and pratice safe sex.

3)if he is a teenager: give him half the day or 40 mins! If he is adult give him 40-60min to get it up again. If he really good, he should have no problem starting back up in 20mins.

Good luck and remember be safe and always use protection!

Answer 7

1. It can last 5 minutes - it can last hours ... It depends on both people (usually the male)

2. Yes - WOMEN are supposed to orgasm too - typically it takes women longer to get "there"

3. It varies by individual

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Answer 9

Always use protection!

teens can go for like 3 hours. at least I did. Average is like 30 minutes to an hour. Some guys are like 5 minutes depending on how excited they are.

Yes women orgasm and it's usually stronger than men.

10 minutes recovery time.

Always use protection please. No matter how much you like him. If you don't have a condom go get one.

Answer 10

No time limit. If there is its not making love.
Sometimes girls orgasm and sometimes they dont.
Usually about 10-15 minutes.