if your to best friends are in a HUGH fight and they both want you to be on their side, but you dont want to take sides???????
2007-01-07 17:41:33 · 8 answers · asked by Caroline Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No true friends will put you in the middle. The best thing to do is not to take sides it has nothing to do with you. If there are true friends they respect you.
2007-01-07 17:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Explain to both that you are stuck in the middle, and ask them to leave you out. Tell them if they care for you, they will not put you in this situation. Tell them both it is not fair for them to ask you to take sides. I go through this all the time. At work, people make comments that I'm the only one who gets along with everybody. Because I don't make waves.
(Actually, it's not that I don't understand their situation, or that I don't have an answer for them, I JUST DON'T CARE!!) (joking)
2007-01-08 02:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by ditzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don take sides but make them understand that their friendship is not going to be glorified because of this fight Instead tis going to be devastated.So if they understand this, they ll come to know that this fight is not worth it.
Never ignore and go away only because you are not ready to hurt them. This act will hurt them more deeply.So try to solve thier problem by making them value thier friendship.Afterall you are thier best friend....
2007-01-08 02:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by ALMIGHTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then they ain't your Friends, Angel. Friends are suppose to be about support. Fighting is childish. Walk away, until they grow up.
2007-01-08 01:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just tell them that you don't want to be on a side but tell them that if you like nicely
2007-01-08 01:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they're mature enough to stop behaving like children.
2007-01-08 01:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to grow up and get over it and call you when they do
2007-01-08 01:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Chris B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
solve the war ! who is right in your opinion?
2007-01-08 01:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋