girls cheats on guy with me and i get jealous what should i do!?

Question

this girl was going out with someone....and well i had liked her since before she got with her boyfriend.....then it came to a point where i kissed her and she began to cheat on him...and i loved this girl and i still do and she loved me..then it got to the point where jealousy started to take over sometimes...and it came to a point where my friend called her a hoe and she later told me she had lost so much love for me because of that so then i ended it and i thought and felt like i was over her because before then i had no interest in any other girls......until i eneded it
then she had gotten in to trouble because she had gotten a hickey from him.....and at that point i felt so almost over her i began to be friends with her b/f and he told me that he gave her a hickey and i felt this tremendous amount of jealousy..and i didnt know why..
and i still dont...i love her.......i just dont know what to do i cant get over her...what should i do...and why did i feel so jealous

im a female if it changes anything
and her boyfriend is slightly homophobic(a s s hole) and im not interested in shareing

Answer 1

Because you care! Find someone who deserves better. Who cares what she does and with who!

Answer 2

So if I'm reading you right, this girl stepped out on her boyfriend to have sex with you? Is that the story here?

Okay, first off, you need to stop making plays for women who are already spoken for. I don't think I'd advise you to spend any more time with this woman. I'm sniffing some neurosis here, and I wouldn't recommend that you get involved with it. She appears to be stringing several guys along, one of whom is you.

I think you did right by letting her go. Yeah, you'll have a hard time initially getting over her, but there are other women out there who will go out with you who won't suck you into their dramas. This girl isn't the one. I can't imagine that you would have any kind of "relationship" with somebody who would cause people this much confusion. Healthy relationships don't include jealousy and confusion and jumping back and forth between friends.

Let her go. You did the right thing. If you need any strategies for specifically moving on without her, getting over her and moving on, let us know. I've got tons of 'em.

Addendum: I just read your additional comments. My advice stands, even if you are a female. I'm not into drama, it has no place in healthy relationships. Good luck.

Answer 3

because all the love and tenderness you give her still doesn't make up for getting railed by a big ol' cockasaurus every now and then...