Everyone always asks why girls don't want the nice guys, but why is it that GUYS never want the nice girls. I am a nice girl, and I always get screwed over. Explain this to me.
2007-01-07 17:40:23 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Immature girls aren`t looking for nice guys and immature guys are not looking for nice girls. They find each other and break up and find another and so on.
You are actually lucky to be a nice girl that jerks don`t want. You don`t want an immature jerk for a boy friend. That mature Nice guy is out there and he is looking for you. If your available and not with some jerk he will find you. He will adore you and love you forever.
Good question
2007-01-10 05:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gone Rogue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nice girl, not nice girl are all relative terms. Boys may like nice girls but the interest wanes off after some time. What boys and girls look for is challenge. Challenge of the unknown, challenge of achieving what does not seem achievable. So, even if you are nice girl, you must play it 'difficult to get' game. Know the boys move and for some time play like you are allowing them to win. At the last minute you turn the tables and make the boys frustrated. You say 'yes' but mean 'no'.
You are not mean or unkind, when you do all this, You are Sophisticated. Sophisticated people do not have a simple 'yes' or 'no' in their vocabulary, but a myraid shades in between. Boys and girls fall for the sophisticated party of the opposite sex
2007-01-08 01:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because for the guys, they want something that usually nice girls don't give. Well, it depends on what kind of guy is he. Actually, don't generalize that guys don't want nice girls. there are guys who want nice girls too, but it just so happen that the guys you have encountered are not the right guys for you. Don't worry, time will come that you can meet the perfect guy for you.
2007-01-08 01:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by ema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is simple. The guys that you have chosen to be with, were the wrong choice to begin with. Sometimes we need to be screwed over a few times so we know how much we truly appreciate our love when we do find it. But then again, don't be too nice, who wants to date a complete goody-two-shoes?
2007-01-08 02:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by G.P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do. Maybe you're not as nice as you think. Or maybe there is something else about your personality that is turning them off. Guys usually don't want just one aspect of a girl, they want the whole package. Or maybe you should consider yourself lucky they're not into you because they might not be all that.
2007-01-10 14:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ann_Tykreist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a nice guy and im waiting to meet a nice girl!
2007-01-08 01:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the times its coz of timing and also maybe u have not just set ur starndards to where u want coz everyone seem to seetle for what they can obtain easly and if u r in usa and are 20-32 yrs u can try me i think i,m a nice guys
2007-01-08 01:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most good guys like nice girls. it depends on the guy. if theyre looking for a relationship, then most of the time they will go for the nice girl so that they can be with her longer. good luck finding a good one!
2007-01-08 01:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by blackbelt20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad girl seem more fun to hang around with. Sometimes guy consider that nice girls are boring, but don't worry, the right guy will be around the conner :)
2007-01-08 01:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by winkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a nice guy. I look for a girl who is nice, but it seems like they are all taken. You can email me at always_somethingbetter4u. I'm on yahoo
2007-01-08 01:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋