I'm dating this guy for 1 year and a half, and he is sometimes not happy much with what I react with his friends ( his friend being rude to me), and we often argue a lot.
I just find out that he keeps pictures of a group of his friend in which his ex in there, also there is a website he made before he met me, post all the happy pics of him and his ex. I told him that I am uncomfortable with this and ask him to put away the pictures of his ex, and he told me that it is the last thing he will do because first he is busy, then it was his past and it happened before I come, and he said I violate his privacy. But I am up set because we did not have any pic together, and he never show our pic to any body or put our pics in his office or in his room, I feel like he did not love me, and he still hang on to his last relationship. Should I just dump him or try to convince him to put away the pictures?
2007-01-07 17:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A year and a half is way too long for a guy to still keep his ex pictures. If I were you I'm not going to waste my time, because when I start relationship with someone new maybe I will still keep some pictures in a box somewhere but never out in the open. And if you make him put away the pictures, then it's not his will. Besides, you already told him it bothers you. I think it's not right when he doesn't take your feelings into consideration. And I think he still like her. Just my opinion.
2007-01-07 17:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont blame you one bit. Unfortunately, if he doesnt want to put away the pictures there is nothing you can do about it, so that being said, he is not taking your feeling into consideration. He doesnt care that it bothers you, and I think it would bother any normal person, especially because he doesnt have pictures of you up. Are there other times he doesnt care about your feelings? I dont know if this alone is reason to dump him. Only you know if there are other things to consider. dont waste your life on someone who doesnt make you happy. Move on if that is what your heart is telling you to do.
2007-01-07 17:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by meeahcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me that the guy still has feelings for his ex. I would have a nice long talk with him about it and he doesnt respect your feelings than maybe it is just not meant to be sorry to break it down to you like that.......but men can be dogs
2007-01-07 17:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand u are bit jealous...because you love him. if you are just dating and never been in serious like making love, well i guess it's good to break up with him. move on. i know you can do it! he doesn't deserve you love. you could still find a better man who will make you his life and everything.
2007-01-07 18:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by redsand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does respect you or your feelings,If he did this shouldn't be a problem for him to do. you can leave him or just deal with it but no its got nothing to do with you be over jelous. Good luck
2007-01-07 17:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋