i dont wanna be rude but she is to attached and i cant break up with her cause i really like her family and her older brother would kill me
2007-01-07 17:44:29 · 13 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All the things you could do to make her want to break up with you would still make her brother want to kill you so why don't you just tell her the truth. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-01-07 17:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Roxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no easy way I'm afraid, if she's very attached to you then she's just not going to break up with you unless you do something to really hurt her......in which case her family are going to hate you anyway.
I think she and her family would appreciate you being totally honest with her more.
I think I may be in a similar situation to her at the moment, I am not totally sure yet but I think my boyfriend is trying to provoke me into ending our relationship. I would certainly prefer it if he would just be honest with me about it, and I am very attached to him.
It's always a horrible experience having to let someone down but it's always better not to prolong the agony for them. My advice is do it now, don't waste anymore of her time, tell her exactly how you feel and walk away.
At least then if her brother speaks to you about it you can say that you didn't mess her about, you did the right thing,
Best of luck.
Elaine,
2007-01-08 01:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient n wait 4 the chance.4 the time being,u just pretend don't know anything,but try to keep some distance from her.u must always maintain calm n tell her that u've lots of commitments n u got no time to meet her.sooner or later,i hope she could forget about u,then u can take ur heel n escape at last.
good luck.
best wishes.
2007-01-08 01:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tough question, Partner. Life always has it's rough spots. If you're tight with the Family. They "should" be supoortive. If not. They ain't your Friends. You're too young to be pushed in a hole.
2007-01-08 01:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't play that game my friend it's messy. if she's attached trying to make her hate you may drive her to do some horrible things before leaving you. It's best to not burn your bridges as you go either. Be honest be patient and be resolved in your position. don't give in to temptation.
2007-01-08 01:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA, I was thinking about the Seinfeld thing too.
Think of something Cant Stand Ya!
2007-01-08 01:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by blackedge02 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could address the problem first.
or ask her to have a three way. She'll be so repulsed that she'll dump you, but you'll fall right in the third girls arms. I saw it on Seinfeld.
2007-01-08 01:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well u can break up with her or stay and be miserable u pickur poison coz nobody can force u to love them back ever
2007-01-08 01:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know you want to take things a little slower!
2007-01-08 01:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you want to have the freedom to see others as well.
What a deal for you if she accepts and if not you get what you wanted!
2007-01-08 01:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by needliberty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋