I am a working women, married and having a child, How i should be?

Question

I am a working women and my husband is also working and he don't have time for any house work. All I only has to do. I am having a 3 yrs doughter and no body is there to look after. I send her to daycare also they won't seen her properly. So i left her from there. And i am working is a private company here also so many competition is there. I am a person who tell everything straingt forward. Some times i feel, it will harm my office relationship. And my boss also acting special with me. I am very irritated with him. But no body knows that. And i don;t care that also. I just ignoring it. So i don;t know how to manage, office work and homework. I always used to think about my child in the office and office in my house. And moreover i don;t to ride a vehicle also. I am in a imbalance situation.

Answer 1

you sound stressed. Your husband needs to help out... you need to prioitize and cut some things out.. like some housework.. maybe a few hours at work, or change jobs, your boss sound slike a jerk

Answer 2

Your place is being home with your child. Your 3 year old needs you as a mother, not a working "career" mom. You two brought her into this world, so now is the time to raise her and don't put her in a daycare for someone else to raise her for you. That is your job!

If your husband has a good job, then you should consider on leaving your job to take care of your daughter. She needs that bond, not a bond from a stranger.

You don't need all that chaos at work, you need some fun and quiet time spending it with your daughter at home.

Believe me, you will thank me later! (smile)

Answer 3

First learn driving. Then tell your husband either he shares the work at home or you will dump him. Stay separate for a few months if he doesnt help. Look for a better paying job. If things dont work out get a divorce and claim alimony and childcare. You deserve a more caring husband.