Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

Let me first say that I have never taken actions to any thoughts. I have a wild background... Church girl gone stripper... Wild partier. I moved away from home to stop this behavior and I did. Its been over a year since. But I think about it often and sometimes wish I could have both... My husband and my wild ways. But I know he wouldn't like that. I would feel awful if I did. But someone told me that I shouldn't resist my urges. What is real? What should I avoid? I love my fiance.... I can't be without him. Is it possible to have my cake and eat it too?

2007-01-03 11:39:16 · 28 answers · asked by grover4u21 1 in Singles & Dating

A family I'm not especially fond of wants me to babysit their kid-who is a brat-I'm willing to see how it works out,the moneys good and I could probably be a positive force in the kids life... I'm not sure I even want to do it-but then there is my guy who is playing my daddy and rejecting any plans I have to earn cash-the reason I need a job is because my guy does nothing to help me get a running car-he doesnt want me to work or drive...even though I have to drive our daughter to school everyday(in my moms car)should I baby-sit for the money and teach my guy -he's not my boss or respect his decision and forget about babysitting?

2007-01-03 11:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by cassiepiehoney 6 in Family

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2007-01-03 11:38:30 · 19 answers · asked by pre-k teacher 2 in Weddings

wht should i do im scared for her i think its wrong but how can i go about it

2007-01-03 11:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I invited my bf over tonight for dinner and i got sick. mid dinner i went upstairs, got sicker, came back downstainrs and told my bf i was going upstairs to take a shower real qucik bc i feel gross. i come back downstairs and he decides he is going to play monopoly with my brother and mom, which is like the worlds longest game. now im in my room, by myself, bc im to sick to sit down stairs and hes not even here. it really pisses me off bc hes sick all the time and i always go to his house and take care of him, sit on the couch with him and what not. am i over reacting in being upset?

2007-01-03 11:36:51 · 35 answers · asked by BUFFCHICK25 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm sick of my friends having one nd i don't =/....

2007-01-03 11:36:10 · 15 answers · asked by karolina512pl 2 in Friends

what's the best thing to look for in guy

2007-01-03 11:35:59 · 1 answers · asked by ArkansasMommy 2 in Singles & Dating

alrite so i like this girl and stuff. and she tells me she likes me too. but then she told her friend that she just wants to be friends with me, and shes still gettin over her old boyfriend. ive known this girl fro a while, so we r pretty good friends. but i cant tell wat she wants, if its wat she told me or wat she told her friend

2007-01-03 11:34:28 · 9 answers · asked by john smith 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 11:34:25 · 8 answers · asked by Terry F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically long story short she is an unhappy *****. excuse the language. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and her mother does nothing but yell and scream and carry on for stupid things. She does nothing for her daughters self esteem always putting them down. I lost all respect for her and its a good day if i even say hi. She says now that she hates her daughter and i because i am rude and dont say " HI mrs. Mary everytime i walk into her house. Its a very unhappy place and i hate going there i hate her mother but i love my girlfriend so much. What should i do?

2007-01-03 11:33:19 · 9 answers · asked by Adam 5 in Family

2007-01-03 11:32:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So far I have bought 2 dresses they are a royal blue maybe even closer to a purplish blue. I need 2 more dresses I want the dresses to kinda interact with each other. What about flowers? My wedding is in july and my friends keep saying RED but its not a 4th of july theme wedding or a military wedding.

2007-01-03 11:32:30 · 16 answers · asked by aliciadawnash 2 in Weddings

2007-01-03 11:32:03 · 2 answers · asked by samathie 1 in Weddings

AHH boys are sooooo confusing?
and well i herd he likes me and well I like him (I know not to believe everything you here) but this is pretty reliable soarces anyways. I like him so I want to talk to him. and I dont know what to talk to him about I see him at lunch before school and or in the hallways between classes. Any ideas Okay and I want him to ask me out cuz this girl also today asked me that if he asked me out if i would say yes. she wouldnt tell me why but i was all yea i would. She was in class with him. how can i talk to him get hm to ask me out or ask him myself which i dont really want to ask him myself

2007-01-03 11:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother has no one. It's pathertic, really. She talks to the television and her cats. She's made no attempt at meeting anyone or making any friends, ever. And why should she, she has me, right? I'm a 29 y/o man who made the tragic mistake of letting my mother move in with me this past summer because after my roommate and her b/f moved out and I told her that I wanted my g/f to move in with me she said, and I quote; "I knew it, I knew you were going to leave me here alone to die in this neighborhood by myself!" Followed by Oscar worthy sobbing. I don't like my mother, I love her, but the sound of her voice makes me want to throw myself in front of a train. I'm miserable and it's effecting my work, my relationship and my mental health. She can't afford to live in the house I rent by herself because of her limited SSI and her unwillingness to stop impulse buying and look at her situation practicaly. This can't go on any longer. I will end up doing something drastic and terrible.

2007-01-03 11:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by elliotk420 1 in Family

I want to do something special for my husband...he gets back in a few weeks...any ideas that are CLEAN?? We have a trip planned a few weeks after he gets back, but I want to do something special when he first gets back...I'm not good at these kinds of things...can anybody help me out??? THANKS!!!

2007-01-03 11:31:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this girl I like and i wrote down my feelings toward her and love in poems. But i dont know wether i should give them to her becuz i dont want her to think im a big pussy as they call most guys who are willing to share things like this. Becuz ive been told girls like a guy who will be mean to them but i think even if this is true i would like it not to be but tell me what you think before i give these to her. They show what i believe love is like. They may be poems or just qoutes but u decide.

Every sentence you want to say is just. I love you. and not being able to is sufferage

Love is just..heaven and hell mixed together every second your not with them..you feel like is a waste. and all you want more than anything is to hold them in your arms

Words cant always explain things. they can't explain love. no word is Brilliant enough to describe the pure joy and suffering of love

2007-01-03 11:30:59 · 16 answers · asked by Undefinable 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 weeks and I love him. But today he just broke up with me because he was "tired" of dating. I admit i'm still in love with him but how do i forget about him?

2007-01-03 11:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by cuteyna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm good looking(as concieted as that sounds) and i have a good, fun-loving personality. i'll see guys looking at me but they never come over and introduce themselves. why?

2007-01-03 11:29:01 · 11 answers · asked by erieberrie 1 in Singles & Dating

What will you do different?

2007-01-03 11:27:50 · 27 answers · asked by boricua1970maileen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I really want to be put on birth control but i dont know how to ask my mom because i am only 14 but i want it so if anything does happen then i wont get pregnat not so that i can go and screw all the boys in the school but i dont know how to ask her got any sugusstions?
♥ Thanks for your help

2007-01-03 11:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single pregnant mom and I live in the basement. The landlord is aware of the problems to a point. I am scared to report them.. I asked them once to be quiet (I asked nicely), as they were keeping me up and they got really angry with me. They will know it is me due to the circumstances....

2007-01-03 11:26:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here are some questions choose one or all to answer....

1) Other than MySpace are you a member of any other social networking groups? (i.e. Facebook, Tagged, Xanga)

2) Has MySpace allowed you to do or say things you wouldn't normally say in person?

3) Have you had any negative experiences with MySpace?

4) What things do you not like about MySpace?

5) If you DON'T have MySpace do you feel left out?
-OR-
If you didn't have it would you feel left out?

6) How often do you sign onto MySpace?

7) Do you know everyone on your friends list?

8) Do you know everyone you messsage?

9) Has anyone you didn't know ever asked for any type of personal information?

10) Would you care if your parents, coworkers or teachers saw your MySpace?

2007-01-03 11:26:14 · 6 answers · asked by lhsdancehayla 1 in Singles & Dating

Is "significant other" good? I thought of "domestic partner" but that seems to be something you have to go ahead and make permanent.

2007-01-03 11:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by RT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You and your friend have known each other since elementary. You practically grew up together. You have been there for her when she has needed/requested your presence, you are there to give advice when she asks you, you have been there during loss of family, etc. However, when you ask something of her (i.e., nothing out of the ordinary...trust), she gives you a flat out no or simply an "I can't make it". Do you think you would deserve more than that? Even if it is as simple she doesn't want to do something because she doesn't want to...... Your comments please! Thanks in advance......

2007-01-03 11:25:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just have a feeling that he is. some people that we're both friends with think that he might be cheating on me. i want to confront him about it but he'll probably think that i'm being paranoid or something. i really want to know. its like, killing me not knowing whether he's with someone else right now. how can i ask him or just find our whether he is or not?

2007-01-03 11:25:31 · 22 answers · asked by cassidythehoodlum 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 11:25:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 11:24:19 · 8 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Weddings

I love receiving help and comments from helpful people, but I am sick of reading pure **** posted by little kids and/or bufoons. Is there a similar web community with less jokesters, insulters, etc.?

2007-01-03 11:24:17 · 12 answers · asked by kmm4864990 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have or had a girlfriend.but she broke up with me because i was starting to get jealous of her friends who happen to be guys.i don't mind her hangin out with them its jus sumtimes i get jealous of them because sum joke around in a weird way like spreading in front of her.n i don't like it whn they do tht.n sumtimes she hangs out with them more thn me n whn tht would happen? i would get jealous n wonder wht they had tht i didn't n if their was sumthing goin on between thm.multiple times she would tell me nuthing was goin on.n for about 2 or 3 weeks i would fall back into jealousy.but right now i don't care who she talks to i miss her and she told me if i can change we can get back together.and does anyone know of any ways to keep me from getting jealous?i really do love her and i don't want to screw this up.i just have a problem with sum of her friends gettin TOO close.

2007-01-03 11:22:51 · 11 answers · asked by stork 1 in Singles & Dating