I want to do something special for my husband...he gets back in a few weeks...any ideas that are CLEAN?? We have a trip planned a few weeks after he gets back, but I want to do something special when he first gets back...I'm not good at these kinds of things...can anybody help me out??? THANKS!!!
2007-01-03 11:31:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How about a quiet evening at home - make his favorite dinner and eat by candle light. Just sit and visit. It will be better than you think.
Tell him thank you from all of us for serving our beautiful country.
2007-01-03 11:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd give him everything he missed while he was gone. If you have children, get a sitter for a couple of nights and spend some quality time with him. Fix his favorite foods; indulge him in a full body massage; go for walks someplace scenic and talk. Be affectionate, be loving but let him set the pace when it comes to being intimate. The last suggestion is because I think your husband will need some time to get his feet on the ground. He'll be transitioning from a war zone to a place the complete opposite of that. Maybe I'm crazy, but the first night or two it may be enough for him to be in your arms. Men are already sensitive when it comes to "demands" for sex, and this is no ordinary situation.
Make his homecoming welcoming, intimate and comforting. Let him feel the depth of your love for him.
2007-01-03 11:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all of the above are good answers. My husband was just home for his two weeks of R&R and his most favorite thing to do was to just relax and hang out with me and our baby. Whoever said that all they want is "normal" was right--Although, I did plan a huge party for a couple days after he got home and that turned out really well...Everyone liked the idea too! I would say they best thing would be to make his favortite meal and then go from there!
2007-01-03 12:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by jdud125 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 03:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when mine gets back from deployment i have a cheer-leading outfit that i plan to wear, and I'm currently learning how to do the splits. i also planned us a romantic trip to San Antonio for a week with my mom coming to watch the kids for us while we're away.
2007-01-03 12:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man comes home from deployment he doesn't want special. He wants normal. He wants his wife looking pretty, his house clean and his kids happy.
Trust me.
2007-01-03 11:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a very quite relaxing evening at home! home is what my best-friend in iraq misses the most. then a special candle lit dinner for two with soft music in the back grown. a couple glasses of wine and then great sex!
2007-01-03 11:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a picnic.
rent a hotel and put rose petals and candles everywhere (or at home).
throw a party with all friends and family.
if you have kids have them make a sign.
run to him like in the movies. :)
dinner and a movie.
have a game night.
set aside a time where you just relax and talk.
2007-01-03 11:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by jmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you guys have e-mail communication...(my husband is over there and he does)
But start exchanging some e-mails making plans for what you want to do. be completely candid, and when he gets home, after he gets over the jet lag, set about your plans.
2007-01-03 12:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Brianne H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a very nice perfume for you cook a very nice dinner and dont wear underwear,thats what my wife did when i came back 2 weeks ago and we did not go out of the house for 2 days
2007-01-03 11:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋