Basically long story short she is an unhappy *****. excuse the language. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and her mother does nothing but yell and scream and carry on for stupid things. She does nothing for her daughters self esteem always putting them down. I lost all respect for her and its a good day if i even say hi. She says now that she hates her daughter and i because i am rude and dont say " HI mrs. Mary everytime i walk into her house. Its a very unhappy place and i hate going there i hate her mother but i love my girlfriend so much. What should i do?
2007-01-03 11:33:19 · 9 answers · asked by Adam 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ok...#1...what kind of mother goes around saying she hates her daughter...not a very good one I'm afraid...and #2...she probably feels intimidated or threatened by you...because you won't put up with her crap!!!...and #3...it is very hard to say "hi" to someone who treats you like dirt. Listen...I have a mother-in-law just like this one...and if your girlfriends mother is like this...then you have a serious problem!!! I would give this more thought...can your relationship with your girlfriend be strong enough to stand her mother?
2007-01-03 11:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lynnie M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, this is a big problem! But honestly, if you love your girlfriend and want her to be a part of your life, you have to do your best to accept her family and be civil to them. You don't have to like her mom or hang around at here place much, but give her a bit of respect by at least greeting her and making small talk whenever you have to be around her. That's a start for making things better. Then, if you and your girlfriend ever progress to getting engaged and married or something, being related to her and having to be around her more will be more tolerable. Just be patient, even if she remains the mean old lady she is. Best of luck!
2007-01-03 20:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to tolerate the woman. You are not going to change her, (word of warning...take a good long look at her, since SHE raised her daughter's they COULD be come her later in life), or leave your girlfriend.
2007-01-03 19:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo yall should run away 2gether or sumthin tha would b romantic lol but talk wit her moms n ask her y she hate u n now her daughter i thin thas messed up
2007-01-03 19:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by forrest b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your girlfriend to tell her mother how her mother makes her feel.
2007-01-03 19:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for your girlfriend, you hate visiting her mohter's house but your girlfriend lives there. just ignore her mother.
2007-01-03 19:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to move with u or next time invite her at ur place instead
2007-01-03 19:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered winking at her mom?? It just might work!
2007-01-03 19:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by j0hnrcash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for your girlfriend's sack when you are in her mom's house just smile and nod
2007-01-03 19:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋