ok well i dont know what to do!?

Question

Well I really want to be put on birth control but i dont know how to ask my mom because i am only 14 but i want it so if anything does happen then i wont get pregnat not so that i can go and screw all the boys in the school but i dont know how to ask her got any sugusstions?
♥ Thanks for your help

Answer 1

First of all you are WAY to young to be messing around. Pregnancy is not the only thing that you have to worry about! You need to do some serious growing up and reflecting. Do you really want to be known as the easy chic that does not give a plying flip about herself (to put it nicely)??? Do you really want to end up with STD's? Do you really think that you are capable of dealing with all the junk that comes with the territory? If you think you are that grown up then just talk to your mom, but I am going to tell you this right now. You are no where near grown up enough, I can tell by the way you asked the question.

Answer 2

First off, don't think that the birth control pill will keep you safe from harm. You will still be at risk for STDs, like HIV and herpes. Using both the pill and a condom is a much safer option... but only abstinence will keep you truly safe.

Also, ask yourself if you are ready, emotionally and physically, for sex. You don't have to do it just because everyone else your age is doing it, or the boy you like really really wants to do it, or whatever. Figure out for yourself when YOU want to have sex.

THEN approach your mom and say you want more information on sex education, and you would like to start the pill now so that you will be prepared when the time comes. Show your mom that you are mature and sensible, and reassure her that you do not intend to be promiscuous. If your mother refuses to discuss the matter with you, but you are determined to have sex, then go to your local Planned Parenthood office for information, condoms, and affordablly-priced birth control pills (please note that recent studies have shown these condoms are NOT as reliable as name-brand condoms available in stores... invest in Trojans or Lifestyles if you're serious about protecting yourself).

Answer 3

Okay, I suggest just having out with it. Your mom would probably be glad you trusted her and that you're being responsible. Also, always, ALWAYS use a condom. You should be more concerned about catching something other than sperm, like something that could kill you.
If your mom refuses and you still think you will be needing it, pay your local chapter of Planned Parenthood or any sort of teen health center a visit. They usually supply free condoms and can help you get birth control, all anonymously.

Answer 4

I would tell her just like you told us. Better safe than sorry. You intentions are not to screw everything that has 2 legs, but just to be safe.

Being a mother myself, it is going to sting, and she more than likely will yell and be upset, but on the upside you are showing a great deal of responsibility. At least you arent one of the dumb girls who think they wont get pregnant and do.

But also as a mother, I would also encourage you to wait to have sex. Be a girl as long as you can, cause childhood goes so fast these days, and once you start doing grown up things there is no turning back. And being a grown up isnt what it is cracked up to be.

Answer 5

Are you even in H.S yet? If not, it may be harder. Just tell your mom that you're at the age where you're exploring your sexuality. Tell her you know the many risks of sex, including pregnancy. Tell her that you want the pills because if you get pregnant not only will you mess your life up, but hers and the child's too. Talk to her seriously and compassionately. Let her see that you care, and are responsible (if she sees you're scared and unsure, your chances are slimmer). Tell her you want them incase "something happens" but that you won't sleep with the first guy you see.

Answer 6

you know I was think about this the other day to.I think us teens are looking for this and all the stuff they show is like don't do it,and you want to even more you know,but anyways.well there is one this you can do:if you have bad cramps or period problems they,put you on birth control,umm tell her you just want to have if when your older,or be straight out honest with her and say I don't want to get prego if I have sex so please for my safety.I know a 13 year old who is on that cause her mom put her on it cause shes haveing sex with a 16 year old.Just tell her you would rather be safe than sorry,BUT rememeber you can still get pregant,Be careful.And good luck hope this helps!!

Answer 7

That is a tough one. Do you have any relatives you can go to and ask about it? Also if you have yearly doctor appts. you can talk to your doctor as well. My step daughter talked to her doctor about it and she is 16. I actually think the doctor gave her a prescription too. Your mom will probably have to find out, but if you are comfortable with her, you should sit and talk to her about it honestly. Remember though, the pill does NOT stop std's. You should still practice safe sex.

Answer 8

I would agree, talk to your mom, tell her your reasons, like you told us, she might surprise you and unserstand your thoughts.
You seem to be a pretty smart young lady and I guess your mom knows this, too.
My daughter is 12 now and I sure hope when time comes that she will come to talk to me about it and I will sure take her to the doctor to find the right protection for her. Good luck to you

Answer 9

tell her the truth.... have you an your mom talked about sex? tell her your not sexually active yet but it could happen and you want to be preparied ... but you still need to have a condom.. even with birth control....you can never be to sure... ok... hope it helps..

Answer 10

my sister asked my mom the same thing, just ask her about it and tell her your reason, moms tend to be cool like that.