Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

My boyfriends relationship is not good with his mom! His mom was very mean to him, manipulative, controlling, abusive, was an alchoholic, and left him as a child. Till this day when they talk they just fight.

He is very close to his Dad but, I'm curious...does this mean we might have problems emotionally?

2006-12-29 04:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating him for 9 months. For the most part he is really good to me. I just don't feel for him the way I felt for my ex. My problem is my ex was terrible to me, keep in mind I will never go back to him. I want to know if those feelings can grow for my current boyfriend. Am I settling or should I move on?

2006-12-29 04:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A girl I fancy at work was texting me all over the holidays. I mean I got over 30 texts from her in the space of a few days. I dropped the hint that I did not know what I was doing for New Year's Eve. That night she offered me to spend it with her and her friends. At first it was supposed to be in another city. Then she text me to say it was in another state and we'd need to fly there. So before agreeing I figured I needed to know exactly what kind of relationship is developing here. So I asked her was she inviting me as a friend or something more because I really like her. I had an inkling she has a boyfriend but I know they are having probs and thought it might be over. She responded telling me she has a boyfriend, that she is sorry and I am lovely. I said I was sorry for getting the wrong idea, that she is a lovely girl and I feel lucky just to be friends. She replied with saying Im a brilliant guy and she is so glad she knows me.

2006-12-29 04:53:21 · 14 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for two years and are totally in love but there are certain things that don't come up in normal conversation. What are things you find out after you are married that you wish you had asked about? (Like if mother-in -law will live with us.)

2006-12-29 04:53:14 · 17 answers · asked by Zee Bee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom is really mad and telling me to just buy new memory cards which are really expensive too by the way...because she doesn't believe me that if i put my photos on to a disc here, that the disc will be able to read in the us...and lots of the discs here in chile are from the us...like...even the covers are written in english...i don't want to waist my money on a new memory card help please?

2006-12-29 04:53:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have met a woman who is from asia. and we have a wonderful relactionship. she treats me like a king. we love each other very much. in the past i have dated women from america only. most i have found are not very honist. or just want sex. to play headgames. or just looking for a sugar daddy. but the asian woman seam to be more into spirutal things than anything else. anyone else ever experance this?? or is it just me??

2006-12-29 04:53:13 · 4 answers · asked by norris724 2 in Singles & Dating

If i am banging a woman, but my wife is currently in a different continent is it cheating? also can the continents be connected like europe and asia or does it have to have a ocean in between. also if i bang a prostitute and never see her again is it cheating even thou ill never see her again? please answer cuz i dont want to cheat on my wife, im willing to travel far or even pick sum dodgy girl on the street but shes been real busy during the day wiv the gasman helping him fill in some pipes that every night shes too tired to have sex wiv me.

2006-12-29 04:52:58 · 57 answers · asked by pie-jur-wot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years, living together for 2. I have found that I really fancy one of his workmates. I only see his mate a couple of times a year and won't do anything about it as I love my boyriend too much. I can't help these feelings. Is this wrong?

2006-12-29 04:52:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm divorcing. And it's killing me. What does it mean if the hubby says he loves me but is not in love with me--and cries and cries on the phone about how much he misses me. And yet, he doesn't want to stay married?

2006-12-29 04:52:22 · 10 answers · asked by crazyloonynice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

cheat on their girlfriend /spouse why is it a man it seems society excepts that men do that but if a woman dose they are a whore or tramp??

2006-12-29 04:51:44 · 25 answers · asked by PAULINA S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and going on 18 august?

2006-12-29 04:51:26 · 6 answers · asked by Moanika 6 in Family

My Fiance and I have been together for 3 years, friends for 3 years before that. His son and my daughter are 8 years old and we have custody of them. Together we have a 14 month old and I am 4 months pregnant with our second child. (we are getting married in the fall - the wedding was planned before I got pregnant).
The problem I need help with is with his son. Everytime we go to send him to his moms he acts out. He steals money from us, and my daughter, he pees in his toybox, and ON his bed, he lies to us and quite frankly I have had enough! I have my ECE and a backgroud in child psychology....I know its normal for kids to act out...but this has been going on for about two years. He tells everyone he is hapy living here, and loves us, but his actions really make me think differently.
When we figured out that he was peeing in his toybox, I gave him two choices...to clean them with lysol,or I would throw eveything away...not sanitary to play with pee covered toys.

2006-12-29 04:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by blue_eyes_1_ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Will on science fair my friend told Matt Andy’s twin brother I like his brother Andy so then Matt want a told Andy I like him and Andy like I do not like her. So now Andy looks at me and smile and he will not say hi or what’s up, and it is everyday. And in Friday Dec- 22-06.
Andy was in my class to watch a movie and he sat next to my friend and I and I said hi what's up and he all like nothing. I was talking to my friend about Andy sister who is a teacher. Andy said yea you know she is my sister. He is all smiles at me..... what do i do.......

2006-12-29 04:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by pinkdoginmudd 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that i see at work. The problem is i've developed feelings for him even though he has a gf. I told him about it and suggested that it's best that we stop talking at all until i get over my feelings for him. We've stopped talking for a couple of days, but i miss him. Do you think he know i was going to end up missing him? Does he really want me to get over him?

2006-12-29 04:49:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.finally i am accepting that my ex who dumped me has a new girl.im really and truly starting today am gonna move on from him and let go. ever since the breakup(it was a really bad break up) hes been ignoring me and treating me like crap.and 3 weeks later he got himself another girl i was pissed and hurt. and even though he was with her i was always imagin him comming back to me, or me getting another guy to show off infront of him. but today im letting go for the new year, i put all his stuff in a box and focusing on his bad qualites...idk if i should but i am. but when we go back to school (9th grade) i have a class with him. hopefully i will be cured from him, but what if seeing him earses all the progress and what if he continues to act like a jerk to me. what do i do. im suppose to get a new class(the one i have with him beacuse i need that period to take something else.but if i dont and i still am in a class with him how to i handle him. we dont talk,but he still makes life hell

2006-12-29 04:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

My neighbor who is my friend as well just got married we have been friends for about 10yrs now, the thing is that she is having a dinner to celebrate her wedding, but the thing is that whenever i go to her house for those types of dinner it ends up like this: Igreet everybody, i talk here and there, eat dinner and then look into the wall and i get bored very easily, and if i dont go she will be so mad at me, and i am trying to avoid that, also as well my boyfriend has invited me to go with him to Santas Enchanted Forest(its a fair), in Miami beach florida and if i dont go with him i wont see him until new years since he is going away for the weekend with some friends on a boat trip,but if i go i know il have a blast!, what should i do????

2006-12-29 04:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean isn't there a wound so deep that it'll never go away?
Or when as much as you try and try you still can't stop thinking of that person?

2006-12-29 04:48:27 · 24 answers · asked by silvs 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi :-(. I lost a bet to a girl from my school and now she gets to choose my punishment. She wants me to go online and ask random people what they think she should do to me. She wants people to suggest the most disgusting and nasty thing she can do, so what is your opinion?

2006-12-29 04:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by ubersteve619 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he kind of a loner and likes to spend a lot of time by himself , the only way to talk to him is through professional emails.
How can I show him that I like him.......

2006-12-29 04:47:23 · 19 answers · asked by sara k 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats the best dink to order for a woman at the bar?

2006-12-29 04:46:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend gave his 25 yr old daughter who is married and has 2 kids a credit card with a $2000 dollar spending limit. He said he was trying to help her get ahead. She maxed it out in about 6 months and never paid the bill, so the collectors came after my boyfriend and he negotiated the bill, so he only had to re pay about $800 dollars. I am sure it is affecting his credit. He bought her a car about 4 years ago, and she never paid him back. A year ago she moved home and stayed with her whole family for 9 months. She moved back out, bought another car and it was re possessed, a couple months ago, so now she is driving her dads car. He says he is trying to help her out. Why is he doing this stuff? I worry myself crazy about him because he works all of the time. Never has time to himself. He has diabetes, he is overweight, is in borderline kidney failure and his health is crap. He was sober for a long time, and now he is starting to drink heaily again. We have dated x 5 years.

2006-12-29 04:46:38 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I go to a private school, and theres only 8 girls in my class. We all are very good friends, and we hang out alot. But theres always a time when someone gets mad at someone, and when the girls in my class get mad, we tend to gossip about the one were mad at. Even if they ARE your good or best friend. People say that everyone does this when they get frusturated, but im wondering, if you gossip about your best friend even if you don't mean what you say, should they still consider you their friend? Or should they not trust you anymore?

2006-12-29 04:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by natrose19 1 in Friends

he said that to me and i am confused so is it a compliment or an insult??? Help me with this and if you have question i will help you!

2006-12-29 04:46:12 · 24 answers · asked by Shelly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

meaning like because of a bad relationship with your parents. you will that if we were to be parent .. you will be like them and treat how u were treated before. i'm so scared about it .. i might hate kids but when i see kids or little children my heart just melt and i feel i wanna have one that i would love and cherish .. doesnt anyone feel the same way ..

2006-12-29 04:46:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This close friend of mine types her every move of msn messenger.

2006-12-29 04:45:45 · 6 answers · asked by martin3 1 in Friends

2006-12-29 04:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by Bryan E 1 in Family

well iam 20yrs and i recently moved to Atlanta!! yeah I am having fun enjoying life to the fullest!! when I frist moved her I stayed with my aunt for about towo months and then decided to get my own place!! now my step sister!! ( different mother and father) just moved her a month ago and has not foun a job yet nor has she even got a highschool diploma at the age of 18. I wanna help her but i need her to show so type of self motivation!!........ she really needs to get a job but cant even talk to the mangers right !! what should i do should i send her hone or should I let her stay with me !! I wanna be harsh but i'm just tired of her sleeping all day and me coming home to my lights and tv being turn on and played all day !! she dont understand that things have to payed for i work from sun up to sun down and she dont know how to calean the bathroom right !! please give some advice so i wont be so hard on her!! imean I love my sister and want the best for her.............

2006-12-29 04:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by Tabby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wondering how many people get their first boyfriend in High School and is it freshman,sophmore, junior, or senior year?

2006-12-29 04:45:10 · 16 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone? someone?
give me a reading.
i don't know wat to do anymore.

2006-12-29 04:44:12 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think this was wrong of him?

2006-12-29 04:44:08 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce