he kind of a loner and likes to spend a lot of time by himself , the only way to talk to him is through professional emails.
How can I show him that I like him.......
2006-12-29 04:47:23 · 19 answers · asked by sara k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Open your labia, then pull it over his head like a hat until he says "UNCLE" then he'll be interested.
2006-12-29 04:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT LET HIM KNOW!
IF he likes to spend time by himself he probably wont be receptive anyway.
It is very unprofessional to talk to him about your feelings thru emails and your employer can read whatever you write anyway.
if it does not work you will have to quit your job to mend your broken heart and that is if you are lucky. YOur employer might FIRE YOU!
The guy might think it is sexual harrassment
who knows
Besides, If the only way that you have talked to him is thru emails, you dont really know him at all. He might just be a jerk!
Everyone will also be in the middle of it if it does not work.
It could also compromise your job
since quite a few employers frown upon fratenizing (however you spell it) with coworkers
AVOID THIS
you will thank me later
2006-12-29 12:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you attempted to get him out of the office and into a social scene. If you have and he wont go, give it up. He's a hermit. If not, try. Make your move there. He may be less reserved then. I work with several attractive women and wont say much to them in the work place just to keep the professional atmosphere but when we get loose, I get spanked. I could be wrong though. He may just not like anyone in your office, or you.
2006-12-29 12:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by timboo28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.
if you are more attractive than he is, than you have all the power. you can just approach him and be direct.
if he is more attractive than you, or if you are not what is popularly called 'good looking', than you have to find some way of getting his attention on your 'inner' qualities. good luck.
if you are both swimming at the bottom of the barrel, than you can feel confident that he wants someone to like him, and it might as well be you...
However, if it is true that the ONLY way you can talk to him is through business e-mails, than you should sit back and enjoy the fantasy of what could have been, cause you can't talk to him on a personal level.
2006-12-29 12:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by bjohnson808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad choice to move in on a collegue....
Think of how others (whom you work with) will view you....Sometimes they may even treat you differently...
Unless you know that this is love and not a crush..go ahead...but as you stated it's a crush...they don't call it a crush for nothing...
2006-12-29 12:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by mailjunkie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him make a good time to approach him and tell him how you fell whats the worst that could happen hes a loner so I'm sure not to many would find out if he turned u down
2006-12-29 12:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by talaya h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for coffee or lunch. Something casual so you can get to know each other in a different way than work allows. He may not be interested in dating someone he works with.
2006-12-29 12:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by strawberrycrush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a party at your home and invite some co-workers. Make sure he is on the list, and when you see him ask him if he got the invite and whether or not he is coming!
2006-12-29 12:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he's attracted to you. Try a lunch invite then dessert at a motel 6.
2006-12-29 12:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Fire Millen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-29 12:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by estonpillay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋