My neighbor who is my friend as well just got married we have been friends for about 10yrs now, the thing is that she is having a dinner to celebrate her wedding, but the thing is that whenever i go to her house for those types of dinner it ends up like this: Igreet everybody, i talk here and there, eat dinner and then look into the wall and i get bored very easily, and if i dont go she will be so mad at me, and i am trying to avoid that, also as well my boyfriend has invited me to go with him to Santas Enchanted Forest(its a fair), in Miami beach florida and if i dont go with him i wont see him until new years since he is going away for the weekend with some friends on a boat trip,but if i go i know il have a blast!, what should i do????
2006-12-29 04:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your friend of 10 years that you would of loved to have been there, but you have already made plans with your boyfriend.
2006-12-29 04:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by leecarh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live in the 305, trust me, the fair sucks this year..but if you really want to go, see if you can do both. Depending on the timeframe, try to make it the dinner and meet and greet, but when you get their make sure you mention that it is your time of the month and you have cramps and all that happy stuff. After you have been there for a little, politely excuse yourself because you "feel very sick and have to go", you friends, being a woman, will understand. From their, go to the fair and eat all the funnel cake you can, just make sure you don't answer the phone if she calls you. I know it's your neighbor so the logisitics of getting away might be harder than normal, if you really want to make it work, you can.
2006-12-29 12:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a gift to your friend and go with your boyfriend. That way she knows you aren't just blowing her off...but sometimes you just have to do what YOU want to do, and real friends will understand that. Have fun!
2006-12-29 12:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your neighbor you are sorry but you ahve other plans...and get her a REALLY nice present
2006-12-29 12:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your boyfriend. if your neighbour is really your friend she will understand
2006-12-29 12:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by christina23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you WANT to do
2006-12-29 12:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Alysa H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋