I mean isn't there a wound so deep that it'll never go away?
Or when as much as you try and try you still can't stop thinking of that person?
2006-12-29 04:48:27 · 24 answers · asked by silvs 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no, I dont think so there are wounds time doesnt heal what really happens in my opinion is that you just come to terms with the issue in a way that you kinda can move on, also time allows other things in life to happen to you to keep your mind off of it or occupy that part of you life so you dont think about it as much. I was just thinking about that today how when times when I dont have a boyfriend or anything going on I tend to think about all the deep pains in my life alot more and they surface so there always there it just depends on what else I have to keep me occupied, but even still I think its important to still deal with that issue because its seems the longer you ignore it and pretend it doesnt bother you the more painful it seems when you do look at it so its a really touchy thing and i'm sure its diferent for everyone but thats how I see it now, its funny how you see things one way and then later in life after more experience you'll see it totally different then you once did and in that sense it takes time to learn and become wise to life but no I dont things just go away it grows and changes and my favorite life is 10% what happens and 90% how you react to it, Good Luck KIM
2006-12-29 05:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how many years goes by, the wounds will never fully "heal". Because, you will always remeber. And sometimes, memory can always make that wound hurt just as deep as if it was happening for the first time.
You are right. You can be happy(ier) in your new life, have all the things you have worked so hard for and really have accomplished a lot of things, but, if your memory is still fresh, you will never forget the pain that was caused of you. So, yes, you are right. Wounds that are so deep will never go away.
2006-12-29 13:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that time heals all wounds. your right there are some wounds that are so deep that can not heal with time, but as time goes by you learn to deal with it in a better way. there is counseling that you can get into to help you deal with these type of wounds.
2006-12-29 13:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After my divorce I thought I couldn't survive. Just to wake up in the morning and go to work was a real challenge. I was depressed and remorseful and just sad beyond belief. I ostracized myself from all my friends and family and withdrew into myself. I thought I would never get over it. God only knows how many tears I cried. I tried many different things to get rid of the pain - even alcohol - but the only thing that helped me was taking my burden to the cross and leaving it there. I had to pray, pray and pray some more. I had to ask God for peace and hope and forgiveness. It didn't come instantaneously but it came. I don't think God allows us to forget the people who hurt us because they help shape us into the stronger people we grow to be. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
Now here I am years later with a husband and a family. There are times I still reflect back and feel sadness but I'm happy with my life today. I have wonderful children and a husband who loves me. God has restored to me that which was lost. He can do that for you too. Stop trying to carry the burden alone. Ask Him for His help. There is no one more qualified to help you and no one who cares as much that you survive this and heal.
God bless you!
2006-12-29 12:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time makes the wound easier to deal with. My fiance died July 16, 2005 suddenly. I had to push myself back into life because of other things I had to deal with. I still think about him daily. I finally quit crying every day about 8 months after he died. Besides forgetting the wound all together would cause you to forget the lessons you learned from the experience.
2006-12-29 12:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by anita r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true time does heal all wounds. Eventually you will start to think of the person less and less. Someone or something will take it's place to help you along.
2006-12-29 13:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think time heals all wounds, I think in a small way, if you have lost a family member, friend, or loved one, you always keep a memory of them.
2006-12-29 12:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i dont think time heals all wounds, but you do learn to "deal " with it or learn to "accept" it so you can get on with a normal life.....it doesnt mean though that you will never think about the person( or whatever), and when you do think about it will still make you sad, or mad depending on the situation
2006-12-29 12:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by J5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some wounds can't be healed by time. Time can help, you'll think of it less often. But it's still there.
2006-12-29 12:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by laura 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all starts with you, if you focus on memories and/or things that remind you of that person time will reopen the wound. If you move on now time will help heal, it all depends on you
2006-12-29 12:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋