Would you give your 25 yr old married child a credit card in your name and why?

Question

My boyfriend gave his 25 yr old daughter who is married and has 2 kids a credit card with a $2000 dollar spending limit. He said he was trying to help her get ahead. She maxed it out in about 6 months and never paid the bill, so the collectors came after my boyfriend and he negotiated the bill, so he only had to re pay about $800 dollars. I am sure it is affecting his credit. He bought her a car about 4 years ago, and she never paid him back. A year ago she moved home and stayed with her whole family for 9 months. She moved back out, bought another car and it was re possessed, a couple months ago, so now she is driving her dads car. He says he is trying to help her out. Why is he doing this stuff? I worry myself crazy about him because he works all of the time. Never has time to himself. He has diabetes, he is overweight, is in borderline kidney failure and his health is crap. He was sober for a long time, and now he is starting to drink heaily again. We have dated x 5 years.

I forgot to mention, the daughter doesnt have a job. Her husband works full time. They have 2 small children. When she lived with her dad, she came home every day from shopping with bags of toys and junk from Walmart. She always said she was spending their birthday present money. After she maxed out the credit card, she borrowed money so her whole family could go see her "dying" mother in law, who by the way seems healthy to me. She is still alive 2 yrs later.

Answer 1

First of all, that child woman is a fraud...........

Also, I know that if a child of mine were to get married, I would assume they don't financially need me anymore, and I would act as such.

If the broad wasn't financially stable, she has no business getting married until she gets herself together.

Answer 2

well good thing he is just your boyfriend and not your daughter.. so just like you said hello.. say good bye.. NOT TOO SMART!!! Find a brighter one! Good luck!