well iam 20yrs and i recently moved to Atlanta!! yeah I am having fun enjoying life to the fullest!! when I frist moved her I stayed with my aunt for about towo months and then decided to get my own place!! now my step sister!! ( different mother and father) just moved her a month ago and has not foun a job yet nor has she even got a highschool diploma at the age of 18. I wanna help her but i need her to show so type of self motivation!!........ she really needs to get a job but cant even talk to the mangers right !! what should i do should i send her hone or should I let her stay with me !! I wanna be harsh but i'm just tired of her sleeping all day and me coming home to my lights and tv being turn on and played all day !! she dont understand that things have to payed for i work from sun up to sun down and she dont know how to calean the bathroom right !! please give some advice so i wont be so hard on her!! imean I love my sister and want the best for her.............
2006-12-29 04:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by Tabby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You do not need to help her find a job. If she moved out of mommy and daddys then she has agreed to being an adult!! Surprise welcome to the real world. Tell her that she has stayed long enough rent free, and she needs to start paying half or what ever you feel is fair. Let her know she will begin to be billed from this day on. But she only has 1 month to start paying. That includes this bill and next. If you give her 3 months she will not have a job until the 3rd month. Sometimes you can not help people. They have to start by helping theirselves. Do you think it is fair that you have to pay bills and she dosent? If you lost your job you would still have to pay your bills or make some kind of arrangement with your creditors. Make sure you give her a time limit. Good luck.
2006-12-29 06:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by cherristee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a time frame. She needs to have a job within 3 months or she needs to go home to mommy and daddy. You're taking care of business so should she. She needs to pay half the bills and pay for her share of things
2006-12-29 05:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her stay with you. But tell her she needs to help you pay the bills. You have to encourage her to get a job. Help her by looking with her and give her advice in how to look for one. If she is not ready for a job and needs more education have her look into job corps. You have to put pressure otherwise things will move slowly but assist her. Buy newspapers, look with her online, make suggestions in where to look.
2006-12-29 04:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by worldcounselor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not let her stay with me. if shes lazy now, she will be lazy with you. you dont need to take care of a grown up.
2006-12-29 04:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋