I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years, living together for 2. I have found that I really fancy one of his workmates. I only see his mate a couple of times a year and won't do anything about it as I love my boyriend too much. I can't help these feelings. Is this wrong?
2006-12-29 04:52:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not really! ur allowed to fancy other people! just because ur on a diet doesnt mean u cant be interested in the menu! it wud b wrong to persue it but u fancy sum1, so wat? ur with ur bf, uve been with him for 7 yrs, u love him and wudnt cheat, u just have a crush, nothing wrong in that watsoever hunny :)
2006-12-29 04:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be fond of someone...if you only see the guy a couple of times a year then you could hardly know him well. It's just a crush or infatuation...as long as you don't act on it, it's fine. Just because you are in a relationship, doesn't mean ya can't find other people attractive or appealing.
2006-12-29 04:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all. We're only human and monogamous by choice, rather than design! Looking is just fine, the odd sexual fantasy too, but if you get to the stage where you're thinking about this guy all the time, it's time to reasses your relationship with your boyfriend.
Until then, just enjoy looking!
2006-12-29 04:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is normal to fancy other people even if youre in a relationship (only human!) However if you find youre attracted to quite a few other guys, maybe the spark with your boyfriend is dying.
2006-12-29 09:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes a participant then that variety of guy will decide for the ladies folk which would be annoying for them to get, basically so they're able to have the delight of being waiting to assert each and every physique fancies me basically coach him you're actually not involved and he will provide up yet tell your bf, cos then he will comprehend he can have faith you and confront his pal
2016-10-19 04:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to be attracted to another person even if we are in a loving and stable relationship as you not planning to do anything about it, it really doesn't matter! You are human after all!
2006-12-29 06:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by jumpin_jelly_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's OK to fancy someone but to follow it through and act upon it is a bad move...like him but stay well away....your boyfriend does not deserve to be hurt by your actions...be sensible and leave his mate alone....stay friends with him, but don't take your feelings any further..it's not worth it...it does not matter where you get your apetite darlin', as long as you eat at home....
2006-12-29 05:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's only natural to have feelings for another man but in time you should see that love is more powerful than a cute guy.
2006-12-29 04:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Devin n 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, why not? You can't help it, if you find him attractive. It's all about the unfaithful bit and lying that is bad- but if you have a good time- good luck to you.
2006-12-29 04:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by brainlady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no window shopping is normal but in case you give in to temptation invite your boyfriends mate for a 3some that way you can vent your lust on him and ur boyfriend.
2006-12-29 07:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by paul k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋