Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

i remained friends with my ex and his new girlfriend and everything was fine. now he wants me to keep having sex with him and the girlfriend is fine with this. she said that she does not like sex and she wants me to keep him happy for her. i have someone else in my life and although i do like both of them i don't want to do this favor for her. help

2006-12-29 05:54:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 05:53:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok.. take it slow. :) Dating at 37 is he-double-toothpick!!

About my new lady friend again..

I think at this point in the relationship - email only. We have exchanged information such as where we live and what we do for fun, pictures, and there is initial chemistry.

And as mentioned in the other question.. LOCATION PROBLEMS, New York to Chicago.

I don't want to rush that subject at all. As it seems like a very quick way to end a new connection if it comes up again.

So now I have to step back 20 feet. Should I just call her tonight and see how the voice and personality chemistry goes? emailing with practical strangers can be odd and I don't see where the talk can go... via email

I think ladies are better at doing the email / dating site thing.

So overall I need to brush up on how to keep email flirting exciting without investing too much into it, yet still keep the possibility open for future romance.

2006-12-29 05:52:47 · 4 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Singles & Dating

what is one good song that shows that i miss my bf??

2006-12-29 05:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by $loverr 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 05:52:22 · 4 answers · asked by Neo Tarantula 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 05:51:55 · 44 answers · asked by bubblesty09 1 in Weddings

My ex gf and I broke up after 6 years of dating. She thinks she loves me sometimes as a bf and sometimes more as a friend. Anyways we break up and she said that she doesn't want to talk for the first month or so, so I agree. She has called me everyday crying. When I ask her straight out and say "We are never going to get together again are we?" She will never answer the question and keeps coming back with "I'm so confused right now and that you are the most amazing guy ever and there is nothing wrong with you". She said that she could see me as being the perfect husband for her. Yet she tells me that I shouldn't wait for her and should move on. I know I should give her time but can anyone shed some insight. Also do you think that this is just a phase she is going through and once she realizes how much she misses me that she will come back?

2006-12-29 05:51:48 · 12 answers · asked by BUBBles 1 in Singles & Dating

and if not, why not?

2006-12-29 05:51:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone know the law about it, many thanks

2006-12-29 05:51:37 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

All my boyfriend likes to do is watch TV, play video games and check stuff on the computer. Sometimes I feel like he's not listening to me when I talk to him while he's doing these things. When we go out we either go to the movies and then a coney Island resterant that we always go to. I just need help getting his attention becasue sometimes I don't feel like he loves me although he tells me all the time that he does. I love him to very much. Plus we haven't made love in while. I think its been about a month or 2 I can't keep track. I kind of feel like I'm turing into a mother instead of a girlfriend cause I like to take care of him. I don't know what to do. Please help me!

2006-12-29 05:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by shy girl 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy I really like asked me if I prefer guys that are good looking or that were nice. He is also very touchy feely and asked me "why don't you have a boyfriend, you are very beautiful."

When he compliments me and calls me "beautiful" or "sexy" I tell him "nahh oh thank you."

We get along great and we are always joking around and feel really comfortable around each other, he also tells me that I am his best friend that's a girl.

Was this just casual conversation?

I am reserved around guys and I usually don't let them touch me on the back and such but I don't mind if he does, does that make me look easy in his eyes?

I plan on waiting until marriage btw.

Thank you :)

2006-12-29 05:50:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After you are married why does it feel like you don't want to have sex anymore? My husband and I are HAPPILY married for almost one year and after we had a child together, I'm not very sexual with my husband. I love him to death and sometimes it seems to me that I'm neglecting him. Should this bother me?? Please only serious answers.

2006-12-29 05:49:42 · 25 answers · asked by MARJ213 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 05:49:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my b/f is very romantic i love being around him, but a i have a couple of questions regarding this myself. He is 32 has 2 kids, been divorced for about 4 yrs, i met his exwife already....and well i am 20. i love him dearly..he tells me all the time how much he loves me and all the love stuff...but then sometimes he acts like he doesnt care about me or what i think or feel and of course i dont like that!!! also he gave me 2 weeks to move in with him and if i dont do it he said he will leave me, i dont want him to do that, i am afraid if i move in with him things might not work b/c of age difference and b/c of what he does like working too much, spending money like crazy,spoiling his kids too much, smoking and drinking, and the thing is once i move out of my house i cant go back to then look like a fool, sometimes i do want to live with him b/c i know that he will treat me well and make me happy, i know that by me living with him i can help him get back on his feet, like he used to be

2006-12-29 05:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's my friend, and my brother's friend too. but one day i was writing my friend a note about how i think his butt is cute and I like him and now he doesn't talk to me anymore and i don't think he likes me very ,uch anymore even as a friend.

2006-12-29 05:49:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Supposedly things in a relationship will go great for the first three months and then you start to show your true colors to the other person. Does anyone believe this is true? or is it possible that people are actually "themselves" from the begining?

2006-12-29 05:48:37 · 15 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf is the worlds best bf. I have never had anyone as great as him. He opens the car door. He pays for everything. And for Christmas he gave me a diamond heart pendant necklace. I love him sooo much! I'm the luckiest girl in the world. We are talking about our future together, and marriage and where we are going to live.
The other night he had a wierd dream that I was pregnant by someone else. He ex got pregnant by someone else while they were together, so I think it's his subconsious that is scared I will do him the same way, or maybe he's not over that part of his life yet. I'm not sure.

I know for a fact that he loves me though. He wouldn't drive for an hour to some see me for like 30 minutes some nights. No guy would do that.

Do you guys think that the dream could be his subconious or should I just forget it??

2006-12-29 05:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

OK SO YEA.
WE JUST MOVED AND I WILL BE GOING TO A NEW SCHOOL STARTING NEXT WEEK...
AND I WONT KNOW NOBODY. AND IM SHY.
BUT ONCE I GET COMFORTABLE IM NOT THAT SHY NO MORE...
BUT ANYWAYS I NORMALLY MAKE FRIENDS EASILY...
BUT THEY ALWAYS COME TALK TO ME FIRST...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

2006-12-29 05:48:23 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

2006-12-29 05:47:41 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to get an older guys attention. women, how do you flirt in a mature way?

2006-12-29 05:47:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when ur boyfriend wants to have sex but ur not ready for it

2006-12-29 05:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by suzie. 5 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is letting me decide where, when & how our wedding is. He tells me that what I decide is fine with him. He tells me he's ready and wants to get married, but doesn't seem too excited about it. Is this normal for guys?

2006-12-29 05:46:55 · 19 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Weddings

2006-12-29 05:46:48 · 14 answers · asked by tahaver 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in a business meeting and couldn't take your eyes off the person across from you?

Did you have the nerve to approach that person later?

2006-12-29 05:46:44 · 4 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

mocked when people say marriage is "just a piece of paper" and it is not necessary for one to be in a committed relationship? I do. I believe that unmarried individuals who claim to be in a committed relationship because they believe marriage is "just a piece of paper" do not have a committment at all. In fact, it is the polar opposite of a committed relationship because one party can walk out whenever they want with no legal obligations or consequences. The next time you buy a house, at the closing, tell the broker that you don't need to sign any papers because you are going to make your payments on time at the agreed upon interest rate until the loan is paid off. See how far the it's "just a piece of paper" argument gets you. What are your thoughts?

2006-12-29 05:46:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do i deal with this? my mother even called me a whore once when i had a guy friend over for drinks. It makes me feel like crap. I just want to move away and not care how they feel about it but i care if i hurt them but they dont seem to have the same curtisy.

2006-12-29 05:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was beginning to make out with this guy he is my ex boyfriend's friend, my ex past away 3 months ago, at first we liked each other and were just playing around. then he found out i had lied to him that i was pregnant with my ex but it turned out to be false. so he hates liers and he is mad at me. he cant even look at me but he says he is still attractd to me. i live with him he took me in when my boyfrend died. and now he wants me to live. WHAT DO I DO? HELP

2006-12-29 05:44:59 · 37 answers · asked by pamela m 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there a differnece between the two.

I had someone tell me this girl may "want your attention, or even like you".

2006-12-29 05:44:45 · 10 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 05:43:31 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2 in Friends

I'll be graduating and going to college on a full scholarship soon. My boyfriend is 20 and has a good job that could support us as a family. We want to get married and live together where I'm going to colllege

Living together and not being married isn't an option because of our mutual beliefs.
My parents want us to wait atleast 3 more years but I know that there is NO WAY we can wait that long.

Mutual friends and mentors (including a marriage coach who is a family friend and knows us well) and HIS family support the idea. Our pastor believes we are too young, however.

Should we gat married the summer before I start collge, after my first semester, after my first year?? (I will be skipping my freshmen year of college and entering as a sophmore with credits I earned in high school).
We wanted to wait until marriage to have sex but continue to slip.

He is my best friend and I want this so we can share evrything a partners and he can support and encourage me in school and vice versa.

2006-12-29 05:43:25 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings