All my boyfriend likes to do is watch TV, play video games and check stuff on the computer. Sometimes I feel like he's not listening to me when I talk to him while he's doing these things. When we go out we either go to the movies and then a coney Island resterant that we always go to. I just need help getting his attention becasue sometimes I don't feel like he loves me although he tells me all the time that he does. I love him to very much. Plus we haven't made love in while. I think its been about a month or 2 I can't keep track. I kind of feel like I'm turing into a mother instead of a girlfriend cause I like to take care of him. I don't know what to do. Please help me!
2006-12-29 05:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by shy girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
suck him off
2006-12-29 05:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This same thing happened to me. I ended the relationship two years ago this April.
My ex-boyfriend became obsessed with video games. It got so bad that he flunked out of college, quit taking showers, didn't leave the house...and his apartment was filthy. I took care of him for way too long. I did his laundry, cleaned the apartment, etc. I did this because I thought I owed it to us because we'd been together for 2.5 years. I thought I could fix him, but nobody can do that for someone else.
The point is that I eventually felt like his mother, and he treated me like I was. If you don't confront him now, who knows what will happen.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 06:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most boyfriends want the most attention so if you stop giving him it (like when he asks you what you want to do just say whatever and look a way) he will want to know whats wrong with your relationship then you can tell him and hopefully if he really loves you he will understand and pay more attention to you.
2006-12-29 05:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that you are doing all the work in this realtionship talk to him and ask him what is wrong it seems to me that the communication has broken down between you and this is an importnat resourse in any relationship if he does not pay any intrset leave him its sound like you deserve better why settle for that you should look out for no 1 and put your happiness first if he rreally loves you he will do all he can to get you back trust me
2006-12-29 05:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key! you need to express your feelings to him rather than us1...dress up sexy and take the remote out of his hands and dance for him...he wont care if he is in the middle of a game if you take control and spark his sexy interest! you know....or suggest going out after he finishes that game!...go for a walk and try something new...if you get more creative in the sak he may want to be there more often with you.....
2006-12-29 05:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go over to him when he was watching TV.. kiss him..walk 2 the tv really sexy.. turn it off.. and grab his hand and walk him 2 the bedroom. that would get his attention then bang him.
good luck with that.
lol i know what its like.. boys and theyr stupid little tv gameS!
2006-12-29 05:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by SteelerCheerChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him for God's sake! Communication is the key!
2006-12-29 05:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one time when he is on the couch watching TV snuggle up to him and start kissing him, you'll see
2006-12-29 05:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Andy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, try telling him how you feel. hopefully he will understand and start caring for you more. If that doesnt work, break up with him........ you deserve someone who will treat you better!
2006-12-29 05:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by rockstaa LAUREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him some space. He has other interests other than sex.
2006-12-29 05:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Paranormal I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got the same question.
2006-12-29 05:57:33 · answer #11 · answered by honeyfairy5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋