Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

My step-daughter, age 14, leaves the house as she pleases and doesn't say where she is going, when she'll be back, nothing. I was taught to ask permission, get the okay, and always tell someone. I am 30 and I am not sure if I am just too old-fashioned for this decade of children. What do you think?

2006-12-29 06:30:13 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. Wizard 2 in Family

im in a delimma. i really love spending time with my bf. but when i am not with him i really dont miss him. it is just the companionship that i like? i dont know. i do care alot about him, but,sometime sthe things that he does really turn me off. what should i do?

2006-12-29 06:29:29 · 26 answers · asked by country girl 2 in Singles & Dating

You have a very close friend whom you get attracted to. What will you do? Approach or Rebuke?

2006-12-29 06:29:07 · 29 answers · asked by Bindass Hyderabadi 2 in Friends

I am looking for a beautiful brother, a soldier, and intellect who can be a bad *** when needed(but never with me), 25-35 years old, tall, built to GO!. Got to impress me with his writing skills but has to have the total package, (i.e. beauty, brains, and brawn) Where can I find a pen-pal like that?

2006-12-29 06:28:42 · 5 answers · asked by Raven 2 in Singles & Dating

If you love then your happy. If you never love you are happy but, which one makes you the happiest for everyone?

2006-12-29 06:28:37 · 17 answers · asked by kempergrad 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 06:28:02 · 12 answers · asked by chrissie8421 1 in Weddings

I have a great relationship with my boss. But lately he feels more like my husband then my boss. We get along great and there is sexual tension. I can see the potential for a major no-no on both of our parts. The major problem is that we are both married! I love my husband and have no intentions of cheating. How do I back off on my relationship with my boss without looking like an idiot or being too obvious. As I said, we are great friends too. I don't want to mess this up.

2006-12-29 06:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by buggerhead 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girfreind recently broke up with me. She said that she dosnt want a relationship and dosnt want a boyfriend right now. She also said that she wants to be just freinds. My problem is that I dont wanna be just friends. I still really like her and wanna be with her. So what should I do.

2006-12-29 06:27:42 · 8 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Singles & Dating

how do I start!! phew... I have been a relationship with a guy for while, things are going great the only thing that really bothers me is the fact that he sends me flowers to my job, yes a place where most girls don't even get flowers. I'm very happy with my lifestyle but when it comes to my job I like to keep things private for many reasons. Now I have tried to tell him this but he doesn't get it, how could it tell him without hurting his feelings? how could I explain to him of how embarrased I get with the comments of others? how could I make him see that we're still not 100% accepted in society and some things need to be kept private?..
Need some advice.. Please.

2006-12-29 06:27:19 · 19 answers · asked by chcgoguy82 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY NIECE HAS CANKER SORES AND MY SISTER AND LAVE SAYS THAT SHE CANT GIVE THEM TO ANYONE ELSE IS THAT TRUE?

2006-12-29 06:27:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've known "Bill" for about 6years. Bill dated my friends but never me so he & I became close platonic friends. About 3 years ago, when we left college, we started hanging out regularly. We were always flirting with each other but *nothing* phyiscal ever happened. (I have some intimacy issues b/c of previous abuse.)
This time last year we were calling every day, visiting monthly - saying "I love you", etc. All "just good friends."
In April, we traveled together - got a hotel room & stayed in the same bed. He got VERY handsy in bed & I ignored it. I was ok with being MORE than friends, just wanted him to talk about it first to know it wasn't just a fling.
After that trip, he's been distant. Doesn't call. I tried calling & talking to him. I've made it clear that I was ok with us being more than friends. But he still won't talk!
After 6 years, I don't want to just walk away!
He also has $300 worth of my horse supplies that I need.

What to do? Call 1 more time & ask for my stuff?

2006-12-29 06:27:05 · 7 answers · asked by kerrisonr 4 in Singles & Dating

i've asked this a couple minutes ago but i only got 1 answer
i want a lot of ideas for girls to do or say to a guy while they're in bed having s.ex
......some ideas that'll easily turn my man on even more. what should i do first? should i whisper anything in his ear?...if so what? should i shake my body? what turns a guy on so badly in bed.....?

thanks again

2006-12-29 06:27:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married but have no compassion, romance or any fun/excitement at home. I am starting to look for more male "friends" but scared of cheating on my husband. What should I do? Other than the problems listed he is a very good man and father.

2006-12-29 06:26:45 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Lady L ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what last name she is going by, where she is living now or nothing. Someone told me she might be in illinois again but I dont know where? can anyone help me figure out how to find her?

2006-12-29 06:26:25 · 3 answers · asked by ts4ever2000 1 in Friends

I am married but have no compassion, romance or any fun/excitement at home. I am starting to look for more male "friends" but scared of cheating on my husband. What should I do? Other than the problems listed he is a very good man and father.

2006-12-29 06:25:43 · 29 answers · asked by ♥ Lady L ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

with a bunch of flowers and gave them to you for being so beautiful?

2006-12-29 06:25:26 · 16 answers · asked by anon4nw 2 in Singles & Dating

Please don't bash, I am looking for advice, lessons learned, and hopefully some positive stories.

2006-12-29 06:25:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my kid sister is in love with a 20 year old guy and she is nothing but 15 years old!! And the guy is in love with her i dont know what to tell her....????? I just dont know what to say or do.........i dont know it to let her keep talking to him so she want hate me....or maybe it's okay there just 5 years apart....and plus what's wrong with older and younger relationships? I have had some when i was in high school...but i just want the BEST for her nothing more just the BEST!!!

2006-12-29 06:23:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We weren't together for very long. Everything was perfect in my eyes, and I told myself over and over I wouldn't let this one get away from me. I thought I might finally have those perfect feelings...We had practically done everyhting there is to do in this relationship except say the "L" word. A week in she says we can't be together for a number of reasons. 1) I was leaving for college again. 2) She just found out she has cancer. 3) My last relationship was bad, and someone had to tell her about it...So, heres how I broke it down. This girl is what takes for me to find a local college. I want to be there with her while she's sick. I absolutely can't leave her during that. My last relationship is just a part of who I am. She says she still really cares about me, but the relarionship wont work until some of these things are cleared. Should I work harder for the relationship? Or accept that its over.? Oh and she wants me to call her later. Is that even a good idea?

2006-12-29 06:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by firefenix05 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 06:22:45 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy is really nice and really sweet, he makes lots of money,he is fun and funny he is almost perfect except one problem tha bothers me is he is not attractive he is everything im NOT phisically attracted to...now i just met him and i really lovee his personality but he i just ugly..and that bothers me sotimes do you think if im not phiscally attracted to him i shouldnt let him be my boyfriend or do you think i should?
Advice and are you in a situation like this??

2006-12-29 06:22:15 · 35 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex moved out of NY to Ohio. We only have one son. The divorce took place in NY. I would like to know whether moving to another state will affect the amount/calculation of child support. Can NY calculation still be mandated? He won't agree to anything. I will have to do everything through the courts. Please help. Thanks.

2006-12-29 06:21:59 · 7 answers · asked by not 30 yet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we haven't touched kissed hug nothing are marriages only legal after consumation(SEX)

2006-12-29 06:21:04 · 24 answers · asked by jellybean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do??

2006-12-29 06:20:37 · 27 answers · asked by i love simple plan 1 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be husband joked about not wanting to wear a ring.Said he never wore any.Do you think it's ok not to wear a wedding ring?

2006-12-29 06:20:25 · 26 answers · asked by jons_girl85 1 in Weddings

I have been best friends with this girl for 3 years now and we have gone threw alot. We were always close we USE to do alot with eachother, untill her mom started not to like me, so i never come over anymore. But we got in to a big fight one night over the phone, and she just started bitching at me and I told her " Please I don't want to fight with you.." and then she starts going off again! And then she said " Not everyone needs your help Veronica.." and when she said that it hurt me so much, then she said I am controling her life. When I have no idea how I am controling her life, i mean I haven't forced her to smoke pot or anything! then she calls me a whore and all of my friends.
And she thinks EVERYONE in school talks about her! And she acts like only HER! When everyone get talks about sometime.
I just don't understand what she wants from me! And all of my friends! She acts like she is the big news and that her life is screwed up everyday by me. When we dont even talk! Plz what!

2006-12-29 06:19:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been reading sometimes bored sad detailed stories of askers dilemmas AFTER and OBVIOUSLY DURING their partners flings of their extra martial acts. I want to READ about your TRIED and/or TRUE BEHAVIORS about yours and/or ex-significant others--I'm curious how many are remarkably the same thing we-they-do over and over again. TY you'll get 2 pts and your answers will go on my blog/email to all my coooool friends who love to rate :)

2006-12-29 06:19:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 06:19:54 · 19 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

He is rude to her. He has many bad habits (some of which are illegal). They have been together for 5 years, and she has been paying for him for the last 3. Also, he threatens to leave her about once every month. The last time he threatened was 3 weeks ago. Then, out of the blue, he proposed to her two days ago. We have all been hoping and praying this would not happen.

Now what?

2006-12-29 06:19:52 · 9 answers · asked by Sintoc 1 in Family

2006-12-29 06:18:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships