Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

I've never been really insecure about my glasses. I was showing some old pictures of me to my guy-friend and he said "You look better in glasses." and I never realized that guys actually look at that kinda thing.

So, guys, do you mind if a girl has glasses? or do you like for her to have the contact option? or does it just not matter as long as she can see?

2006-12-29 06:07:39 · 12 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

When they say "gods speed" what the heck does that mean? its been on my mind since those hikers werent found on mount hood in oregon and also does any one have an up date on that case? did they perish into the gullies???l

2006-12-29 06:06:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i saw my friend passed out i was really horney so i gave him a B.J and he cumshoted in my mouth :D

2006-12-29 06:06:02 · 7 answers · asked by sergio 1 in Friends

Is this good or bad? I mean nothing over like 50bucks but little things here and there, somtimes I think when I do that I come off as a nice guy and the girls less attracted to me then when I get her nothing. Ive tested the theory, and it varies, but generally its better to get the girl nothing then to give her something in the first month of dating.

2006-12-29 06:05:59 · 49 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Singles & Dating

does the bride have the weding band on before the cermony and the groom just applys the engagement ring again? Whats the order! somebody help me?!

2006-12-29 06:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by thikingdomcome 2 in Weddings

i went out with this girl and we broke up for a reason. not that she didnt like me it was just some other thing. so i got over and later on i went out with this other girl. we lassted a month and i wanted to break up. so we did. for the past few weeks ive been actin kinda weird towards the girl that broke up with me. my friends are all on me cause they think i used my past girl. they all hate me because of that reason even though i know it isent true. but like i said im startin to like my past ex allover again. what should i do? to know if she still likes me. we both talk on the phone alot. and txt. and sometimes were on myspace together. we ar like the coolest friends but what should i do if i want to find out if she likes me back as well?

2006-12-29 06:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What kind of things can I do to tease the guy and drive him
crazy with my legs. He likes pantyhose, not stockings or
spray on stuff. He hates bare legs. What color pantyhose
and what kind should I wear? Should I let him touch my legs and feet on the date ?

2006-12-29 06:05:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a man who has a child from a previous marriage and I watch him and take him to and from school on my fiances days he has him, and watch him while he is off school. I am in school full time and work part time, I also have a 6 month old daughter i have to care for and His mother is a piece of sh**and everyone keeps telling me He doesn't need to see his mother, you should just keep him all xmas break and he is a good boy but Ihave a full schedule and I feel like her neglecting him, Means I have him and I don't get to spend as much time with my daughter. I feel like my fiance,and his family and friends should be telling his mother to step up and raise him not me.

2006-12-29 06:05:52 · 14 answers · asked by 21&lovinit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My lil' bro. is SO annoying! I can't get him to stop and I still try but he won't listen!

2006-12-29 06:05:20 · 5 answers · asked by kaylee_efron_1997 1 in Family

My friends keep daring me to hook up with a guy, and i think that he is really cute but i keep saying no. The only reason i do is because i dont know how to. If you could give me some pointers on this problem that would be great. I really need your help!

2006-12-29 06:05:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Behind my back until I find the cell phone bill and see her number on it numorous times. She claims I'm being childish. He says it's not a big deal her husband is around most of the time when she calls.

2006-12-29 06:04:48 · 29 answers · asked by meka30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 06:04:30 · 3 answers · asked by matia g 1 in Weddings

Is this love?

I guess I just dont know what love feels like....In past relationships I assumed that jealousy was love. I was jealous and scared that my bf was going to leave so "I loved him" I cared for him. Now I have no need to be jealous and I dont know if it is love or not.

Attraction - Sex more than 5 times a week?
Respect for one another
Commitment - Both committed to one another.
Comfort - I am very comfortable when I am around him. He makes me feel safe
Us time - I aswell as him enjoy spending time alone. We are going away for 3 nights for New Years tomorrow :)
Humour - He makes me laugh constantly

Is this love?

The only downfall is that I analyze everything about him cause I am having my doubts about what love feels like...I know it is different for everyone but is this worth holding on 2?

I dont want anyone else ever touching me. I am the type of person than can be happy w/out anyone in my life so I cant say that I woudnt be happy if i didnt have him.

2006-12-29 06:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this girl for the last 15 months and we are in love. Well, I think we are in love.

But she just plain doesn't trust me. About 14 months ago, I was "caught" talking to my ex-girlfriend on the phone and in person. Although I never cheated, she claims that it was practically cheating.

Fast Forward to today, where we got into a huge argument over my birthday plans (December 30th) as I told her that my boss wanted to take me out tonight for my birthday. She basically flipped out and gave me sarcastic remarks like, "yah go out, have fun, whatever" and other dumb crap.

I love the girl, but its like, all we do is fight and she doesnt trust me about anything....Its really hurting our relationship and my feelings for her.

HELP ME

2006-12-29 06:02:37 · 20 answers · asked by U Luv It 3 in Singles & Dating

Naive regarding relationships? And if a guy was taking someone for granted because she is naive, would he think she is stupid/less intelligent?

2006-12-29 06:02:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 06:01:19 · 18 answers · asked by Neo Tarantula 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine is a father of a 17 year old daughter and although he has been present in her life he has never had a relationship with her mother. In the early days he found it hard as his daughters mother would make things difficult. His daughter will now only phone him if she needs money. But he refuses to give her any until he gets some positive responses from her, she didn't phone him on his birthday but only a week later when she wanted some money she phoned him to say happy belated birthday. He beleives that she see's him as an ATM machine, now she is 17, she is old enough to to build the relationship without interference from her mother.
What concerns me is that she phoned him up the a few days ago to ask for money for food. He refused and said he will feed her but will not give her money to buy food herself. He beleives that his daughter despite what he gives her will either love him or despise him, so in conclusion he chooses not to give her anything. needs advice

2006-12-29 06:01:18 · 11 answers · asked by knickers 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girl friend for 5 years now and from time to time I feel as I am traped. I wnat to go and explore myself, my life. Something I did not have a chance to do when I was with her as I was a protector and provider for her she came into my life when she had nothing... now she has a good job and can manage to live her life fully by herself I dont feel like she will need me to hold her hand throught thoug times anymore. Some how I feel as my job is done and I need to move on further and I want to but the only thing that stops me is I can not bare the fact she will be with someone else phsycally. That visual image just pops in my mind and I it keeps me form leaving. I think my questions are how can I leave her and get over the jelousy fact. Am I jelous because I am still in love with her? why can't I just walk away?

2006-12-29 06:00:45 · 17 answers · asked by Dragonboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 06:00:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you become really good friends with someone you hardly see? my parents know the parents of someone i really want to become friends with, and in fact, our parents know each other really well. but we barely see them. and they live kinda far away. but is there anyway i can become friends with this person?

i hope that made sense!!!

2006-12-29 05:59:07 · 9 answers · asked by i like turtles 3 in Friends

I think I just don't have that much luck with the boys in my state.

2006-12-29 05:57:33 · 26 answers · asked by mary b 1 in Singles & Dating

well...i held out until i was 16 for my first boyfriend and although he left me i am so happy that his first name was Sebastián since i really like that name...and i've noticed that i find myself wanting to better know people with interesting or cool names...
do other people experience this and...why?
thnx
just curious
xao:)

2006-12-29 05:57:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so I've been seeing this guy 4 about 2 weeks, and I already you know what with him and all. The other night I Asked him what he wanted and what he saw coming out of all of this. He said that he liked me a lot but he's not sure if we've known each other long enough to start dating yet. He was actually the one who suggested that we just not have sex untill he's sure and all. I text him yesterday to see if we were still gonna hang out this weekend and he didn't answer, so I called him and he didn't answer, but I didn't think it was cause of me because his sister called me and said that he didn't answer her call either. I called him today and didn't get to say much to him cause he said he was at work and asked if he could call me later, but he's not always that reliable when it comes to calling me back, but he has been getting better. The guy acts like he really likes me when we're together but, I need another take on what people think he wants or if I should just let it go. help.

2006-12-29 05:57:31 · 14 answers · asked by kandi 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well. this is what happened. i broke up with my boyfriend about a week or so ago. and we still are friends with benefits. but lately he thinks that i try to avoid him.i dont try to avoid him. its just that im not a kind of person that likes to be on the phone all day. and this whole week me and my mom have plans for a wedding, and pennyslvania, new york. and stuff like that. because i dont feel like being on the phone. and i have plans throughout this whole week of school that we have off. i tried explaining that to him. he got mad at me. started saying stuff like " i will only call you once every two days", "**** you," your messed up" and stuff like that. and i was mad so we left it at that. but now his anger is making me rethink if i really want to be his friends with benefits. i just want to be his friend. but i want to tell him in a way which wont make him upset. how can i do this???????

2006-12-29 05:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends just got dirvoce two days ago and she is planing to remarry in 14days, does she need to wait for a 6month before she can marry again?
please help on this answer

2006-12-29 05:56:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that someone shed tears when they are taking a big crap???

2006-12-29 05:56:31 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this girl (she's one of my best friends) and i always thought she was cute, but recently i really started liking her, like she's all i can think about, and she knows i like her, but she's acting like i never told her i liked her, am i a hopless cause? please help!

2006-12-29 05:56:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to register at 2 or 3 places, or is that considered "rude"?? I dont know what is the proper ettiquette for registering for my wedding.

2006-12-29 05:55:19 · 14 answers · asked by bootyninja 1 in Weddings

He said he just wants to be friends with benefits, but he drives 100 miles to be with me and sleeps over and cuddles all night, he acted jealous when my ex-bf called and tried to talk me out of getting back together with him when I said I might, he breaks plans with his friends to be with me, when I was at his house he wanted me to sleep over and when I wanted to go he was practically clinging on to me to keep me from going, we hang out together in public, and he kisses me at random times, even when he's not turned on or doing foreplay. Does this sound like just a friend with benefits??? Do you think he has feelings for me??

2006-12-29 05:55:17 · 36 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the most attractive thing about a guy? Come on guys and girls let me know!!!!

2006-12-29 05:55:13 · 22 answers · asked by renew69 2 in Singles & Dating