ok well. this is what happened. i broke up with my boyfriend about a week or so ago. and we still are friends with benefits. but lately he thinks that i try to avoid him.i dont try to avoid him. its just that im not a kind of person that likes to be on the phone all day. and this whole week me and my mom have plans for a wedding, and pennyslvania, new york. and stuff like that. because i dont feel like being on the phone. and i have plans throughout this whole week of school that we have off. i tried explaining that to him. he got mad at me. started saying stuff like " i will only call you once every two days", "**** you," your messed up" and stuff like that. and i was mad so we left it at that. but now his anger is making me rethink if i really want to be his friends with benefits. i just want to be his friend. but i want to tell him in a way which wont make him upset. how can i do this???????
2006-12-29 05:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that any guy that says "**** you" and says you are messed up is not the kind of guy i would want to be around. hope i helped
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♥ Lola ♥
2006-12-29 06:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your not boyfriend and girlfriend anymore and therefore dont need to contact each other as much, i have friends that i maybe only see once or twice a week.
bare in mind that its hard to stay friends with an ex, he may still have feelings for u and thats why he wants to phone u all the time.
people cant fall out of love that easy its only been a week and a half, have some proper time apart with no contact and then try the friends thing again.
2006-12-29 14:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice is to not be so sensitive and instead, be more sensible. You know it's not going to work out no matter what you do. That's why you broke up with the guy. You need to break it off entirely and go find yourself. Then when the time is right you can look into a relationship with a new guy and you won't have allt this baggage.
2006-12-29 14:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm first of all.... u cant label urself friends with benifits until you actually do stuff. dont make urself seem like u got an amazingg FWB unless u guys hav atleast kissed 2 times after being broken up fully.
2006-12-29 14:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by SteelerCheerChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set your expectations for what FWB means. If it means you just hook up and go out occasionally, tell him that calling you every day and talking for hours isn't necessary because that is not part of FWB - it's part of a gf/bf relationship.
2006-12-29 14:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother being freinds if he treats you like that? The easiest way is to say f**k off and tell him to find some one else to shout at.
2006-12-29 14:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweet heart, there is no way to put it thats gonna make him feel better about losing his sex partner. thats all it really comes down to. think of it this way, if u loved cookies then one day there were no more wouldnt you be bummed. well then thats how he feels. let him down hard and move on. peace out chica!
2006-12-29 14:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that unless you care for me i wont be your friend with or without benefits
2006-12-29 14:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by rockstaa LAUREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop having sex. Second, tell him the truth about how you feel.
2006-12-29 14:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋