Is this good or bad? I mean nothing over like 50bucks but little things here and there, somtimes I think when I do that I come off as a nice guy and the girls less attracted to me then when I get her nothing. Ive tested the theory, and it varies, but generally its better to get the girl nothing then to give her something in the first month of dating.
2006-12-29 06:05:59 · 49 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-29 06:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a little gift is fine. Just nothing too expensive, like you said. I've always found it cute when a boyfriend gets me something, esp. if he overheard me talking about it or if I said that i'd like to have it. Just make sure it isnt anything love related. Dont get too mushy gushy in case it doesnt work out. And dont buy her stuff too often, she'll begin to expect things more and more. And buying a girl something doesnt make you less attracted. It shows that you care and is interested in the lucky girl. Do what you think is right and what will feel right to you.
2006-12-29 06:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by First L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question. It really depends on the girl, its a great way to show her you care, but then she'll be expecting it all the time. Its ok to give her A gift, but thats about it. I don't think theres any good that can come from giving her little gifts all the time. Try sending text messages or emails. "Just saying Hi," that kind of thing. Much cheaper, less dangerous, but equally as effective.
2006-12-29 06:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Belly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is the key, are you giving a gift because you believe it will make the girl smile? If so then it is good to give her a gift, but trying to get a result specifically is a pretty poor reason to get a girl a gift. There is no reason not to give a girl a gift if you truly want to make her happy. That's the only important description.
2006-12-29 06:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by swordsmanoflight21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Presents are always needed. Its a good idea to keep your budget at affordable level which you can easily maintain, there is a lot of variety out there, but don't make any habit of it. Most girls need an attention, then time and then presents. Keep that hierarchy.
2006-12-29 06:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Muhammad Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would wait until you get to know eachother a bit more. u could get her a few small things during the first few months maybe but nothing more. u might end up with a girl who doesnt like YOU she likes the presents, so make sure u get to know them properly first and know that the relationship is going somewere
2006-12-29 06:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her things she will end up taking advantage of you if you do it early on I'd wait till you are about 3 months into the relationship, that way you know she likes you for you and not for what she can get out of you.
2006-12-29 06:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by kandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very bad. You should never spend more than $40 on a date. If she feels like you have to buy her things to get her affection, she will start to think you're unworthy of her love. Only on really special occassions should you be giving her anymore than a few drinks to get her loose.
2006-12-29 06:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by LGT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a rich bachelor and you wanted to find the perfect girl
you might pretend to be poor but giving, open, honest, etchical, maybe youre good looking, sincere.
thats how you find a nice girl not by giving her stuff
2006-12-29 06:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... ur at the start of the relationship so no. dont do it. wait for the month with something small and work ur way up. cause if u come out right now with something extravagent then it will scare her and she will think of commitment and that sometimes scares a few people
2006-12-29 06:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good at least after a month. Make sure that the gift is simple. Even a nice cheap pen will do if it is artistic.
2006-12-29 06:10:38 · answer #11 · answered by ╚RAJ╝ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋