so I've been seeing this guy 4 about 2 weeks, and I already you know what with him and all. The other night I Asked him what he wanted and what he saw coming out of all of this. He said that he liked me a lot but he's not sure if we've known each other long enough to start dating yet. He was actually the one who suggested that we just not have sex untill he's sure and all. I text him yesterday to see if we were still gonna hang out this weekend and he didn't answer, so I called him and he didn't answer, but I didn't think it was cause of me because his sister called me and said that he didn't answer her call either. I called him today and didn't get to say much to him cause he said he was at work and asked if he could call me later, but he's not always that reliable when it comes to calling me back, but he has been getting better. The guy acts like he really likes me when we're together but, I need another take on what people think he wants or if I should just let it go. help.
2006-12-29 05:57:31 · 14 answers · asked by kandi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you know the sayin "I am the most important thing in my life" well its true. Darling, Sweetheart, you need to be honest with yourself and, its not all about him. What do you want and need? If he cant give it then he is not good enough for you! If he does not call you to go out for New Years eve then that means you are not as important to him. I mean come on New Years everyone needs a date because you kiss at midnight right? Where will you be? Better get a date honey and if it aint him you gots to move it on!
2006-12-29 06:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like he got what he wanted..i say move on ...there are more men out there who answer and return phone calls who will like you for more than sex...plus not to be mean but you gave it up tooo quick!...when a women gives it up fast and easy to a man...they got it all so they stop being interested in you because they dont have to work for anything!....move on and respect yourself more with the next one if you consider him boyfriend material b/c he will not look at you as wifey material if you jump right in the bed with him too quick! otherwise ...just get your sex on if you dont care about relationships!
2006-12-29 14:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u should have never did anything with him but o well u did and i wouldnt call him i would wait for him to call u! b/c if u keep calling him he will get tired of u and think u are to pushy so dont call him wait for him ot call u he will call u if he really likes u and wants to hang with u this weekend!
2006-12-29 14:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Brit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put out too fast.
TOOOO FAST.
All guys aren't like that. Sometimes they want
to know you. One date can be enough to know
if you want to date someone. You gave up to the
chase too fast.
2006-12-29 14:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he f's up a lot of women i think all he want's is a chick he can f up when ever he want not to be harsh but all he wants is a women to get head from him and he wants some p#$$% dump him you so you can find a true man
2006-12-29 14:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by TIMER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you for sex. If you want a relationship, this guy ain't the one. Let it go.
2006-12-29 14:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it go all together and LET HIM COME TO YOU. If you keep making yourself so available to him, hes going to keep ignoring you.
2006-12-29 13:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. He's right, you don't really know each other. Take your time and use your best judgement.
2006-12-29 14:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just calm down...the poor guys nervous. just calm him down next time you see him and take it slow. the guys doesnt know what to do.
2006-12-29 14:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by monkeyinaplane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come to you and don't be too available either..
2006-12-29 14:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by RoseFairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋