Is this love?
I guess I just dont know what love feels like....In past relationships I assumed that jealousy was love. I was jealous and scared that my bf was going to leave so "I loved him" I cared for him. Now I have no need to be jealous and I dont know if it is love or not.
Attraction - Sex more than 5 times a week?
Respect for one another
Commitment - Both committed to one another.
Comfort - I am very comfortable when I am around him. He makes me feel safe
Us time - I aswell as him enjoy spending time alone. We are going away for 3 nights for New Years tomorrow :)
Humour - He makes me laugh constantly
Is this love?
The only downfall is that I analyze everything about him cause I am having my doubts about what love feels like...I know it is different for everyone but is this worth holding on 2?
I dont want anyone else ever touching me. I am the type of person than can be happy w/out anyone in my life so I cant say that I woudnt be happy if i didnt have him.
2006-12-29 06:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When it is love, you will know it. You won't be able to define it...you will just know.
2006-12-29 06:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know that answer. When you are in love with someone it's like you think about that person all the time. You get chills everytime you see them. You respect that person. Would never do anything to hurt them. Would give them the world if you had to. You put up with stuff that you wouldn't put up with from just anyone. You would even put you life on the line for that person.
2006-12-29 14:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by tpchick23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure if it's love it probably isn't. Respect, commitment, good sex, comfort and humor are important but you can have these things with a very good friend. Love is something you feel in your heart and don't have to analyze.
2006-12-29 14:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No . and fi you didn´t take a blood test or have him tested you might be in for a surprise in the future. Secondly any physically abled adults can have sex . Believe me .If you think youré in love and he´s in love with you ; you´ve already started off on the wrong track.
2006-12-29 14:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People love in different ways...its just a matter of finding the right person. One of my friends, she's so independant it would never work between the two of us. I couldn't never stand to date her for more than ten minuties.
if its love for you, you will know it..
2006-12-29 14:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS love! A very HOT type of love.
2006-12-29 14:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Scientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a healthy relationship..there is no way to explain love and it "certain" feeling...stop stressing yourself about if it is love or not....love....lust...infatuation ....who cares!!! If your happy , your happythen! and eventually you will know when you really truely experiance the feeling......
2006-12-29 14:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
biggest question is his happiness essential to your own if so then yeah I would say it is the start of love .
2006-12-29 14:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by cliff_aka_colt_4_5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is love is love is love. Love. It rhymes with dove. Love the doves.
2006-12-29 14:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's love.
2006-12-29 14:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋