Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

I met a girl at work as my co-worker. It has been 2 years. At the begging I thought it was just office tension. But I have started to fall for her emotionally. I feel bad but I can not avoid feeling more for her as time goes on. I know she feels the same. When you see someones eyes and body language you can read clearly sometimes. We our good friends, we have not had sex. But I want to spend more time with her. I feel I am in love with 2 woman. What would you do?

2006-12-29 06:43:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Places that are not to expensive but are worth while.

2006-12-29 06:42:54 · 4 answers · asked by Slim 2 in Weddings

JUst HELP ME

2006-12-29 06:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by Stefan W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom used to slap me around a lot as a child
I was in a few tv commericials as a little boy for my cuteness (LOL, once I dressed as dinosaur to sell foot powder)
She loved me then but when i got pimples and wrinkles, her love turned to wrists against my botoom side
How can i tell mother that her frozen tundra nature is annihiliting my heart?
I just want her to stroke my hair like good little boy (and I will meow a little like a cat LOL!) while she sing pretty songs about rainbows and ice cream.

I sometimes wanna suckle again...but maybe later when she learn I still her son.

2006-12-29 06:42:17 · 11 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2 in Family

My husbands old friend is coming into town to see him.(who he hasnt seen in 8 years) I have never met her and he invites her to stay a night with us and doesnt even ask me. Problem is, he's been hiding talking to her from me, and when I told him i didnt want her staying, he told me to get the F*** out. He holds her so high..he said the other night hed choose her over me. To him she is better than sliced bread. What should I do? Should I allow this..should I leave him? I just cant understand why he'd choose her over me. This has been an ongoing problem. He says they are like family ( brother and sister) does that give him the right to choose her over me and his children? I love my husband. Maybe I am over reacting. I know everyone i talked to said you cant bring another woman into the house no matter who it is because there are going to be problems. Some were astounded hed even think about letting it happen. Any answers would be of great help..from both men and women. Thanks!

2006-12-29 06:42:09 · 24 answers · asked by Amber Cullen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I play this game called club penguin, its virtual and i have a best friend who is a girl and ive gotten to know her over the past 3 months.I Really like her personality but me+Her are against taken at penguin. I Like this girl but if i tell her , im afraid she wont like me and this will totally ruin our friendship.Im screwed what do i do

2006-12-29 06:41:48 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew 1 in Friends

Just following on from a previous question really. Can friendship between a woman and a man be non-sexual even is you go on holiday together.

2006-12-29 06:40:54 · 25 answers · asked by Cazza 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a best friend (his name's Tyler) for quite a long time. I started liking him and he liked me so Tyler asked me out and I said yes. I was completely perfect, we were both very happy, but for one thing: my mom thinks I'm too young to date, so I couldn't tell her. He and I could hang out together at school and with other friends in a group, but even that we had to hide from my mom. However, we were still perfect, always thinking about each other and talking on the internet when we were apart. Last night, he IM'd me and said that this relationship isn't working. He broke up with me, saying that since my mom didn't want me with him, there was no real relationship, since we couldn't spend time together. He says he truly cares about me and still likes me, but that there's no point in being together. He said we'd just be friends, and I had to agree. Now, though, I don't know what to do. Do I forget this ever happened? My mom is hopeless, but I love Tyler... What do I do?

2006-12-29 06:40:38 · 11 answers · asked by cowgirl91 3 in Singles & Dating

Want to start the year how I mean to carry on; if I go to my fav lesbian bar I am bound to met up with a nice babe and (basically) get laid. If I go to a straight bar I MIGHT met a nice guy and may get his phone number. (Don't go home with men until I've known him for a good while - not safe)
As I'm thinking about trying to find a man (settling down etc) should I go for the long haul?

2006-12-29 06:40:24 · 14 answers · asked by Ella 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it dorky to be 18 and still be a virgin? It seems like everybody my age and younger is having sex, and I'm kind of feeling left out. problem is that I'm gay and don't really know any other gay people my age in my town so I can't really have a boyfriend.

If you found out someone was still a virgin, would you think they were a nerd or something?

2006-12-29 06:39:51 · 20 answers · asked by _____ 1 in Singles & Dating

I Want my boyfriend 2 have the best new year ever..Ineed ideas..*cannot travel thu*

2006-12-29 06:38:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Love is REALLY starting to freak me out.

2006-12-29 06:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymus <spelled wrong 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you like in a man or a women

2006-12-29 06:37:20 · 20 answers · asked by TIMER 1 in Singles & Dating

I was a addict to crack cocaine and the end result of this was loosing a large sum of money and eventually loosing my son to my best friend while I went into treatment. I have finished my treatment and an still attending AA. I am also still going to court over my son on the 22nd. Will things start to straighten out?

2006-12-29 06:36:40 · 7 answers · asked by Tammy W 1 in Family

Ok so the guy i like called me about 30 min ago and i didn't answer. I really want to talk to him but whenever we are on the phone together the conversation dies quickly. how do i keep the conversation going?

2006-12-29 06:36:29 · 12 answers · asked by MT 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 06:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A bunch of my friends are either engaged, married or married and are having a baby. One of my friends was like omg were all getting so old and starting are own families now., OMG I'm only 23 yrs old. Were not freaken old! I have a bf and those comments make me feel like I need to get on the ball of making a family of my own. This April will be our 2 year. Got any advice for me?

2006-12-29 06:35:50 · 14 answers · asked by shy girl 3 in Friends

Whenever I set out to get a girlfriend, I always end up "just a friend." How does that happen and how should I go about avoiding getting that answer and getting the answer I want? I mean....friendship is nice, but....it's not what I'm looking for right now...

2006-12-29 06:35:40 · 2 answers · asked by Elminster 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 06:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by amgoich 2 in Friends

i fell in love once. about 6 months ago with a guy that i spent all my time with.we knew each other inside and out. then one day he told me he found another and i lost my love for everyone. i have tried going out with other people. like in my last question. i dont diss on guys for being virgins and living with parents. i encourage them to do better. they just dont listen to me. ask all my firends they will tell you i have been on my boyfriends cases to try and do better. but ever since i lost my ex, i can't trust anyone anymore. i want to try and fall in love again,but im scared i will ruin it like i did my last boyfrined. (in my last question) can anyone help me love again?

2006-12-29 06:34:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband was supposed to pay health insurance on our daughter,(she is 15) he hasn't for the last 10yrs. I have had to get Medicaid for her but now they say I don't qualify.Her dad says he won't and that the child support that I get shouldcover it. I pay for all extra things she does(like sports) plus dental and vision.I only get 300.00 child support and that is not regularly.He even refuses to pay for half of her doctor visits.I don't have money for a lawyer.
Help please.

2006-12-29 06:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by sonny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 06:34:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he just wanted to be friends with benefits, which I am fine with, honestly, but I'm just trying to figure out if his actions are saying it's more. He acted jealous when my ex-bf called and tried to talk me out of getting back together with him when I said I might, he drove 100 miles to see me, spent the night and cuddled the whole time, he breaks plans with his friends to be with me, when I was at his house he wanted me to sleep over and when I wanted to go he was practically clinging on to me to keep me from going, we hang out together in public, and he kisses me at random times, even when he's not turned on or doing foreplay, and we talk a lot and watch movies together and stuff like that. Do people really act this way with their FWB??? Do you think he has feelings for me?

2006-12-29 06:34:09 · 20 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

is having s-e-x fun and does it hurt give tips please

2006-12-29 06:34:09 · 10 answers · asked by TIMER 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 06:32:51 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my friends married a woman after she got him landed in jail, marked up his car, and acted a fool at his job. Another friend is very much committed to a woman who insisted that she was on birth control when she wasn't. He didn't want another kid with her and told her that. Another guy I know is infactuated with a woman who seeks to get her ego stroked in between relationships. Another guy I know is very committed to his childrens' mother even though she keeps having sex with the neighbor everytime they move a new apartment. Another guy stays with his girlfriend even though she has no respect for him, screams at him, curses him out, etc.
What's going on?

2006-12-29 06:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend spies all the time on her boyfriends but recently shes asked me to help...i think its so wrong...ive told her this but she thinks im being unreasonable...what do you think??

2006-12-29 06:31:17 · 10 answers · asked by witchywoman_1977 1 in Friends

2006-12-29 06:31:10 · 11 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

My partner for this science project thing keeps touching me in wrong places when I don't like him, I already have a boyfriend, sometimes my partner tries to have sex with me I just hate him. Is it cheating if he likes me and I dont like him

2006-12-29 06:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by Sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband goes out all the time with out kids for at least a hour are two a week i am a fool time student at night and i understand he needs the space so i will take are 4 children out of the house for him i ask him were he is going and when he will be back because i worry but lately he is needing more time and i gave that to him last week when he got off early to go christmas shopping for 3 hours all by himself but this week i gave him a hour last night since he had such a busy day and he needed it so today he was going out he says i have to go to the next town to go out not in town then i say that i am going to same town lets meet up later with the kids have family time he says no i whant me time i never have me time i say but you did just yesterda he says i was on computer so i need help to say am i giving him time,,,he hates asked were going his stops were he will be at and what time be home ,,,, please help

2006-12-29 06:30:45 · 15 answers · asked by sailor 2 in Marriage & Divorce