Is it dorky to be 18 and still be a virgin? It seems like everybody my age and younger is having sex, and I'm kind of feeling left out. problem is that I'm gay and don't really know any other gay people my age in my town so I can't really have a boyfriend.
If you found out someone was still a virgin, would you think they were a nerd or something?
2006-12-29 06:39:51 · 20 answers · asked by _____ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all. Sometimes I wish I still were a virgin.
Virginity has nothing to do with being a nerd. Gawd knows I've met enough nerds who weren't virgins.
You're probably a good guy with a good heart. When the time is right, things will happen as they should.
2006-12-29 10:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not dorky to be a virgin at 18. Get to 28, and people might start looking at you funny though. Anyway.
Gay or not, here's the deal: It sounds like you might want to give up your V-card. That's fine, as long as you're ready for it. Thing is, there's this place that makes it a lot easier to find someone to do this with - it's called college. I'm not gonna come down and say that you should be in a caring, committed relationship before you do that. I'm a girl, and losing my virginity meant nothing to me, and I was 18. I didn't get all dramatic and sentimental about it. It just never held that power over me, so it might not for you too. In that case, I say go to college, have fun, meet some guys, find one you're into, and just be safe. Best of luck.
2006-12-29 06:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by mychemnj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have LOVED to be a virgin at 18!! Having sex is something that can wait but once you give it up it is all down hill from there b/c you think well I am not a virgin anymore so what does it matter if I sleep with them. I would not think of the person as a nerd. I would think of the person as someone with GREAT control and that is something to be respected.
2006-12-29 06:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it shows your not a s|ut and you have morals, you respect yourself and are waiting for the right person.. I've heard so many people go on about how much they regret losing their V at such a young age and with the wrong person, because they weren't physically or emotional ready. I'm 18 and I haven't done it yet, im waiting for the right guy who cares and loves me for who i am, and won't pressure me into anything. I'd rather be able to look back on doing it for the first and the only time i can lose it to be a good experience, not something i wish i'd have waited. Your time will come don't worry, maybe wait till your in university or something. And i have found guys respect me more for not being a s|ut and throwing myself to fit in with the crowd, or conforming to peer pressure.
Just hang on in there and wait till your ready and you have found the right person.
2006-12-29 06:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would not think you were a nerd.Sex isnt everything. Just because people are doing it doesnt mean you have to. Who cares what people think about you.as long as your satisfied. Being gay does make it harder because there are no other gay guys your age in your home town.And that I cant really help you with. Keep Looking though. Good Luck!!!! You wont b needing it !!!!!
2006-12-29 06:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Spidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all no you are not weird! i'm waiting till i get married and i'm not weird second i want to help you with the gay issue i am religious and being gay in the bible is bad. i want to try to help you understand that being gay is wrong with out making you mad about it . you might have feeling for a guy even though you are a guy does not mean you are gay ! some times gay people have horomone problems whitch cause them to feal some thing twards the same sex which would make them think they are gay but they are not .you need to see a doctor to have your hormone levels checked the imbalence of a hormone can cause many things and like i said at the top it can cause fealing twards the same sex . listen you do not have to take my advice but i hope you do i'm not trying to make you mad i just want to lead as many people twards christ as i can.God Bless, Heather
2006-12-29 13:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by toby pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. Not from the religious point of view, but I would prefer someone who did not sleep around just for the fun of it. It mean you have character, keep it.
2006-12-29 06:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would that make you a dork.
it shows that you have enough pride in yourself to not go and slut around with anyone who winks in your general direction.
and kudos to you for realizing who you are at a young age. life is too short to pretend to be anything other than who you are and who you were meant to be. one day you will find a guy who will knock your socks off and he will be happy that you waited til you were ready.
2006-12-29 07:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by The MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,that isn't dorky! And has anyone told you that you are cute!?
2006-12-29 07:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nop, it doesn't matter if you r gay or straight!
that means you have something some people don't have or lost it already! so, keep it until you find someone!
2006-12-29 06:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋