Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

Would you marry a friend with benifits if your not her first friend with benifits. I mean like, she has been through several friends just like you are or were. But now she is in love and says it's all different.

2006-12-29 07:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by Wondrin Dude 3 in Singles & Dating

is still care about my ex,ex,ex,ex. i have dreams about him almost every nite.help me

2006-12-29 07:18:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did u get ur 1st kiss?

2006-12-29 07:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend broke up with me on msn, we haven't spoken for a few weeks now but i'm going back to collage this week and know i will run into him, i'm still finding it hard to get over him somedays i hate him, somedays i want him back. He messed around with my feelings alot usually when we were talking online (which i hate because your not talking to them face to face)when ever we were together however we were fine. Even his best friend doesn't understand him. i know he did have some issues with his family however he would never talk about them, he is also in a band and had little time for me but the time we did share was great how do i move on? really want a clean start for 2007 but can't stop thinking about him and apart of me does want him back its funny to think that he was the one runing after me and now it looks as if i'm doing the same i don't want to appear desperate but the last time we were together we were fine, then on msn he breaks up with me. so confused

2006-12-29 07:17:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The house was his moms, but she gave it to him and he has other siblings. His name is the only name on the mortgage. I don't like the house and he keep saying he's going to sell it but hasn't made the attempt to do so.

2006-12-29 07:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

First, I am by no means religious but I am indeed very spiritual. or a while now, I've seen my friends get used by men and I've had male friends who speak on how women use them just to get what they want.

Now, I've started to see many things from a totally different prospective -- maybe its because my birthday just past or maybe I'm just getting more mature personally.

Anyway, I've grown tried of meeting men who always want sexual relations too soon for my comfort -- when I ask them to wait they get frustrated and walk away (go riddance) or they pressure me even me and I've had all that I can take.

Now, this is the scary part of all this ... How do I find a guy that will actaully respect this? Most men want sex before a serious relationship starts ... let alone marriage. What should I do ?????

2006-12-29 07:17:09 · 23 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If your friend was hooking you up with a date and told you she/he was handsome/beautiful, would you trust them? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what is beautiful/handsome to them may be ugliness to you.

2006-12-29 07:16:31 · 16 answers · asked by Enterrador 4 in Singles & Dating

bec i wan he to dream the same but i not sure ....

2006-12-29 07:16:12 · 11 answers · asked by lv_bleeding 1 in Singles & Dating

they dress in sweats and way-too-short jeans! i hate to go in public w/ them. i dont like inviting friends over cuz i no they will embarrass me!!! HELP!

2006-12-29 07:15:24 · 8 answers · asked by rusty2spoon 2 in Family

I went out with this guy for not that long because i thought my friend wanted him so i broke up. (mistake) i told her she could have him and she said no but leter wanted him so i said fine. (mistake) I want him back and he wants me back for some reason. Is it he misses me or he hates my friend. Help! How do i tell my friend i want him and he wants me. He may sound like a jerk but hes sweet and awesome.

2006-12-29 07:15:14 · 2 answers · asked by xx2dreamer2xx 2 in Singles & Dating

why do guys hate that i mean why???he says he just want to beat the crap of the guys who stare at me all the time....but idk what they care about if we are with them for a reason

2006-12-29 07:15:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am almost 21. My mother, I used to think, was the ideal mother. She was strict, with just enough liberal in her to let me learn some things the hard way.. I recently got engaged, and my fiance and I have made plans to move further north.. and my mother has since turned into this cruel slavemaster and has made it difficult for me to live in her house. I have no means at all whatsoever to move out, since I go to school and work part time and barely make enough to take care of my car. She makes me do EVERYTHING in the house, even when she could just as easily do it. Even when I HAVE done things, she yells at me and tells me I haven't done a good enough job. She berates me and demeans my very existance sometimes. She tells me I'm ungrateful (which is hardly the truth. I'm grateful for everything she's done for me, but I'm getting tired of being treated like a baby.) It's putting a heavy strain on my romantic relationship because she does the same thing to him when he's with me! Help!

2006-12-29 07:14:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl volunteering today, shes very pretty and nice. I got her number, so when should I call to say whatsup? I don't wanna call too early and not too late, so how many days should I wait? should i wish her a happy new year as the first call?

2006-12-29 07:14:14 · 20 answers · asked by mike b 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you call a man who buys his long term girlfriend (7-8 years) a convertible for about £8,000 for Christmas (not brand new), assuming that he's earning around £25,000/ year. I'm looking for words like normal, generous etc. First word that jumps into mind. Thanks!

2006-12-29 07:14:08 · 45 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 07:13:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine got divorced this year. She called me upset because some co-workers told her that since she was divorved she was "tainted goods". Do you agree or disagree?? Why?

2006-12-29 07:11:32 · 25 answers · asked by Neea_Gastino 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my guys are wearing zoot suits and we would like to have that theme for the wedding but i don't know what to use for decorations please someone help me!

2006-12-29 07:10:18 · 0 answers · asked by bxtor1 2 in Weddings

2006-12-29 07:10:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband is tryiing to get the court to grant him 50/50 joint physical custody of our 6month old baby and 6 yr old. he has a diagnosed anxiety disorder, panic disorder, and narsasistic tendancies. we've been in counceling but i don't know if that will help my case. i know he's just doing this because he wants out of child support. which i don't even care about. he's a semantic narcissist. how can i feel rest assured that he will not get my kids 50/50. he can be so convicing that he's got his life together, but doesn't. he has alcohol dependancy issues, but i'm still afraid that if he say he wants this he will be given it. he's been trying to better his case since i filed by all of a sudden trying to show is face at school and has been buying our 6 year old gifts every day. trying to get him to like him better than me...this is so upsetting because he's not a good parent. he's SELFISH! and is more concerned about him self and money above the kids. What can i do?

2006-12-29 07:10:09 · 6 answers · asked by goodtalkin' 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay... what does it REALLY mean when a guy asks a girl for her number... like does he ever intend to call her.. or whatever.. this may sounds stupid but seriously what does it mean?

2006-12-29 07:10:00 · 6 answers · asked by hottie:-) 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend moved away from my school district a couple years ago (we are both in 7th grade at different schools). But shes hanging out with some bad people at her school and i know this for a fact (like having sex at 13 witch is nuts). But anyways i just don't want her to wind up like the people she hangs out with. Any Tips?

2006-12-29 07:09:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love a person soooooooo much as dady surely,he's at the age of my father.actually he's my teacher and i love him soooooooo much and i feel so desperate and angry when i see him with the other girls ana i sometimes feel he doesn't love me as much as i love him...please tell me what to do.

2006-12-29 07:09:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive been trying to get over my ex but i simply cant... He seemed to be so honest and we were together for over a year. He had to be with me for a reason (I know it wasnt intercourse) But everything was going so good. But then I figured out he was cheating on me and I left him. He didnt seem to care. But now I really miss him. I cant live without him...I've tried so hard to get over him but I simply can't someone PLEASE help!

2006-12-29 07:09:02 · 6 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband used to cheat on me before we got married and I didn't even know about it until after we were married. I forgave him and stayed but now every time we fight, I always bring it up. I just cannot seem to put it behind me. Don't tell me to divorce him.
I just want to know how I can put the past behind me and move on to the present and what lies ahead.

2006-12-29 07:08:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HELP HE WONT STAY OUT

2006-12-29 07:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im onli 14 and this is my first bf but ive luved thou, im the kind of type that has a grudge and wont let it drop until i get an answer which even is rejection makse em feel gd, e.g : " i alwys think bout u" makes me feel a lil wanted, i broke u wid my bf hu i went out wid for 3 months at june and , i want ways for me to forget botu him, wen i forget botu him i have a great time btu if i go on messenger everythi u comes bk and i cnt sand the fatc im nto wid him any more.
i understand its a silly teenage relationship and u usually have many loves before ur true love but wen i liek someone it takes ages for me to get ova it. i do know all the stuff about movin on it happens but if u r a real help u wud understand and help me.
(soz bout grammer i go to fast on keyboard cnt b bothred to go back nd check)

2006-12-29 07:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do not know what to do i really like this guy but i do not think i he knows i even am alive. but the thing is his ex sits next to him in one of my classes and he is always making her laugh and stuff. and she kinda of likes him too and she knows that i really like him. And the only reason they broke up is because the guy cheated on her and the guy had the girl he was with while he was cheating. I ReALLY LIKE HIM PLEASE HELP ME

2006-12-29 07:08:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 07:07:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend left me for another guy on the 1st of december. she left me for another guy. it kills me every time i think about her, she's perfect. i love her still, and recently she changed her myspace picture from her with her boyfriend to a very sad photo. then she sent me an email saying that she wants to see me when she comes back from traveling. does she want me back? i know everyone tells me if she did it once, she'll do it again. But have you ever loved someone so much that you wouldn't care?... because one day you would want to propose to her and ask her to spend the rest of her life with you?? i hope she wants me back.... i really do... i'd kill to protect her... i'd do ANYTHING for her...

all answers are greatly appreciated... and i hope you all have a happy new year...

thank you...

2006-12-29 07:07:01 · 10 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Singles & Dating

I am starting to miss my ex a little.I don't want to,but,every night I dream about him,and I always think about him.But,he acts like he doesn't want to get back together with me.I am trying to get over him,and not feel this way about him.Help?

2006-12-29 07:06:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating