My friend moved away from my school district a couple years ago (we are both in 7th grade at different schools). But shes hanging out with some bad people at her school and i know this for a fact (like having sex at 13 witch is nuts). But anyways i just don't want her to wind up like the people she hangs out with. Any Tips?
2006-12-29 07:09:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You probably can't change who your friend hangs out with, but you can tell her how much you appreciate being her friend, and that you don't want her to get sick or hurt or pregnant. Remind her that YOU'RE her best friend, and that you would be devastated if something ever happened to her. Hopefully, if she sees how much you care about her (in a friend-like way) then maybe she'll choose a different group of friends.
2006-12-29 07:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried to talk to her about the problem? I understand how you want to change her back to her normal self, but the one thing is that if you've really think that you've tried your best and still to no avail, believe me, chances are that your efforts will come to wastage. But if she's willing to listen to you and actually trying to change or anything, the best thing to do is to gather as many friends possible and get involved in trying to restore your friend back to normal. Friends are always the key to resolving matters like this. Try to have your friend get involved in different activities and let her see the beauty of life so that she will eventually break away from the noir society. If you need anymore advice, I'm fine with you e-mailing me. I'm a freshman so we're not that much of an age difference. So e-mail me if you'd like!
2006-12-29 15:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when she is strung out on drugs, in a gang, dropped out of school and has a kid ...all at the age of 15. you can sit back and laugh. Here let me help: hahahahahaahahah hahahahahahaaa!!
2006-12-29 15:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is on that path there is little you can do to distract her. Just continue to be her friend and stick by her when bad things start to happen (and they will). Good luck!
2006-12-29 15:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should talk to her and let her know how you feel,,tell her that you care about her and you dont want her to ruin her life or our friendship,,and see what happens,,if she is really your friend and she really cares about you she will make the right choice,,,and not blow you off..
good luck!!! i hope everything works out fine...
2006-12-29 15:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i'm in 7th grade too I think you should talk to your friend!! Also if you ever wanna talk e-mail me!!:)
2006-12-29 15:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Hershey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about if she's denies everything then tell her parents. she might get upset with you but later she'll figure out that you care for her a lot and thank you... good luck :)
2006-12-29 15:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by MT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋