Would you marry a friend with benifits if your not her first friend with benifits. I mean like, she has been through several friends just like you are or were. But now she is in love and says it's all different.
2006-12-29 07:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by Wondrin Dude 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My concern is, she hasn't had long term relationships and of course, she is use to being with different men. Not say she was whoring around, but lets face it; she has had a variety......you know what I mean.
2006-12-29 07:26:59 · update #1
I dont like the whole friends with benefits. For some its just a routine thing. Unfortunately, someone will develop feelings and the other will just want the benefits and remain friends. I think it puts a strain on the friendship. Benefits should come from your girl friend who cares about you and your feelings and be more intimate.
2006-12-29 07:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't base my decision on her having relationships with other people in the past, although that might play into the situation. I would base my decision on how I feel about her and how she treats me/how I want to treat her. We all have some kind of a past and if that were always to be held against us, no one would find happiness, so the real question is do you love her enough to WANT to marry her and does she treat you well? Do you get the feeling or the need to be good to her or do you just want the benefits?
2006-12-29 07:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel. Since her past is not so good and would think about it. I was in this type of relationship and did not work out. I wanted more and my friend wanted to be single. If you want the same and care alot for her than do it but be careful!
2006-12-29 07:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First think if you had ever been with anybody besides her. If you have, is there a difference between the two of you? If not and she has changed and this is different, sure. People change when they find what they really want.
2006-12-29 09:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, she wants you probably only for sex (hence friends with benefits) marry a girl that respects you, and have alot in common with. Don't jump to fast, it'll end up hurting you.
2006-12-29 07:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really comes down to this: Do you love her? Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with her? Don't be hasty in your decision, marriage is serious business and shouldn't be taken lightly.
2006-12-29 07:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like your friends with benefits anymore
2006-12-29 07:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being more than "friends with benefits" for a while and see how that works:)
2006-12-29 07:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by co_co22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-29 07:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is diffrent with love just make sure you satisfy her enough to be the last cuz if you don't i already feel sorry for you
2006-12-29 07:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by HEIDY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋