I slept with a guy I work with several times. He was my first and maybe I just did it because of other things in my life that are going wrong. I don't know. My initial impression of him when he was chasing me was that he was just a player, so I tried hard not to get attached. I fell for him though, and he's still really flirtee at
work, totally leading me on. Other people ask him stuff about us and he refuses to answer if he plans on dating me, but obviously still likes me a lot. He will call sometimes, but we don't hang out anymore. Then he'll ignore my calls.
Before I moved to this town he had slept with some other girl that worked there. She and I are sorta friends, but it's complicated because she keeps telling this guy not to hurt me. We all worked together last night. For the first time since we met five months ago, he completely ignored me. I'm really hurt by it. Should I just let this pass and ignore him back, or should I confront him and risk an even messier situation?
2006-12-29
07:40:12
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micha
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