I love my girlfriend alot, but it bothers me that she says that I don't care enough. She got on full time on a job and I told her I was proud of her, but I guess she expected alot more out of me. How do women want men to express on how you care about them in times like this?
2006-12-29 07:33:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her a note with letters that were cut out of magazines. Spell it out, "i Luv u...". They appreciate the originality.
2006-12-29 07:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Fire Millen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women really appreciate the little unexpected things. (at least i do) Small geastures show that you know her well and know what she would appreciate.
I would reccomend doing something to show her youre proud of her new job...Surprise her with lunch one day (either bring her a picnic she can enjoy or take her to a nice place for lunch)
Get her soemthing that will help her with her job...like a name plate for her desk a breifcase to carry her stuff in, a buisness card holder, a plant as an "office warming present"
You can even frame pictures of her with you and/or freinds for her to put up in her office. Sometimes its just more meaningful for some to show thier support than to hear them say it.
You know your girlfriend best though what thing would mean a lot to her?
2006-12-29 07:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have an insecure and sensitive side . I know because I am this way with my husband sometimes I feel like I can't get enough of him or that he is not giving me enough attention. So, what you have to do is give her more attention by telling her she's beautiful, kissing her more, asking her about her days at work, and comfort her when she hasn't had a good day at work. Just giving her more quality time will make her feel appreciated and not insecure.
2006-12-29 07:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlove30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone. Not to confuse you more, but the really big things and the really little things can be appreciated. Just the everyday things, tell her you care about her, picking up flowers, making dinner, stuff like that. And for special occasions, the grand gestures. Whatever she's into.
When you do something she likes, it doesn't just show you care about her, it shows you understand her and understand what she likes. When she drops little hints on what she likes and doesn't like, pick them up! Maybe she is a little insecure, but you can help her realize you do care about her.
Good luck. ;]
2006-12-29 07:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by orangefishcakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently you DO care because you're asking this question! lol You can prove it by doing something UNIQUE I mean that really hits home for us LoL. Something that YOU and something that unique.. but you can always go original by taking her out on a really nice date or maybe buying her something nice.. but make sure it comes from the heart! Good luck!
2006-12-29 07:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may believe she has just made a major achievement. And it really is. It calls for a celebration - a card, flowers, a party, a congratulations dinner. Celebrate her victory openly and really show her how proud you are!
2006-12-29 07:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is the oldest thing being open and showing love in other ways I know that there are things I wish that I could tell my husband and that we would do things diffrently I know that you know how to give to your girl and to show her you love and care for her just try harder
2006-12-29 07:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ela J Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she's not working, take her to an expensive dinner, and go shopping at the mall!
OOO! Buy a diamond ring to show how much you are about her!
Good luck!!
Best Regards,
♥ Maddie
2006-12-29 07:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kiki_♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a top-hat and a cane to show her that you are supportive in her dream of being a dancer, no matter what her current job is. Everyone wants to dance!
2006-12-29 07:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tom S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you look at your girlfriend, and you think, wow?
Yeah. Tell her.
You know when she says something that's amazingly sweet or cute or funny?
Yeah. Tell her.
Those three words work really well, too. And switch "adore" and "love" occasionally. Telling someone who loves you that you adore them is bound to set a little warm glow in their tummy. :)
2006-12-29 07:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by dagorath1123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋