My bf told me he loves me and after i couldnt say it back he told me not to worry about it, that he didnt want to force me to say something im not sure about. the thing is, i DO love him, i just cant say it to him for some reason. well the other night i talked to him and he told me about some stuff that hes been going through. i just tried to help him and didnt mention anything about how ive been feeling lately about the fact that i barely talk to him anymore cuz hes so busy and doesnt call me and i only get to see him twice a week. i feel very far away from him, but his problems right now are more serious than mine so i dont mention mine. so wednesday night after i got home i got the nerve up to send him a text telling him i love him, and its friday and he hasnt called me...he knows to call me after 9pm and i know that hes always busy, but should i be freaking out here?
2006-12-29 07:43:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have everyright to freak out, i mean i would be. looks like you're in a real jam. i would say he might be just thinking it over, or he wants to talk to you in real, and if he talks on the phone, he might think thats all you want to talk about. or he might have not gotten it, or he has to much other stuff to do to call you back. or maybe the timing was bad and he thinks you're just trying to make him feel better about his stuff. there are alot of things that could be going on. just stay calmb and wait for him to talk to you, and if it wore me, i wouldn't bring it up. let him.
2006-12-29 07:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you send a text?! The first time you say it should be in person or at least over the phone. He sounds totally emo and you do too. Don't freak out over a boy... they are not worth it. Go read a book.
2006-12-29 16:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Zee Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freak out. You put it out there, but you said he's been dealing with a lot. Talk to him when you have a chance (and don't text important things like that again) and find out how he's doing. If you do love him, be there for him, and don't make demands. He was kind enough to do the same...
2006-12-29 15:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...and no. I dont wanna get personal but if hes going though alo of things he might be getting confused so give him a little space Im not saying brake up or andthing like that but give him time to get his things straightened out....Youll just have to let him come to you the more you push the more he'll pull....trust me I'm a guy I know....
2006-12-29 15:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Nitsua 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he recieved the text? The only thing you can do is call him and ask if he got the text, if he did then ask how he feels about it, if not then this is your chance to let him know. Good luck! : )
2006-12-29 15:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by RoseFairy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have more of a chance then I ever could have. Don't make my mistake...don't push, don't shove, leave him alone...let him finish what he is doing with minimal hassle. I got scared and ran before he could...I let him down in the worst way. Be there for him. He needs someone in his corner now more then ever...if not in body then in spirit. Wait for him...wait...
2006-12-29 16:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have that one chance to say it. The devastation that follows not hearing "I love you" back may have cost you the relationship. Even saying it later means to him that up until then he was just a fling to you. You probably just lost this guy.
2006-12-29 15:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget this guy.
He's not worth your time.
2006-12-29 15:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say break up with him
2006-12-29 15:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by CrippledFingerz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him and tell him what you are telling everyone here...good luck
2006-12-29 15:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋