Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

Wishing my dream will come true for a soulmate..

2006-12-29 08:18:00 · 10 answers · asked by nell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am bi but want to eventually settle down with a man (want a family etc). But my rels with men have all failed because after a while they get really possessive about my ex-curricular activities with other women.
My last bf dumped me: he found me with my flatmate (she's my ex) and told me that it should stop. Then he found me again and he went berserk!
Although men think its fun to begin with my experience is that they get really possessive after a while and try and stop you seeing your girlfriends.

2006-12-29 08:17:57 · 2 answers · asked by Ella 3 in Singles & Dating

He saw my friend and I goofing around in a chat room and thought that we were flirting. I was trying to explain it to him but he didn't want to listen. He still won't listen to me. I don't know what to do now.

2006-12-29 08:17:00 · 5 answers · asked by New Mommy 1 in Singles & Dating

for all of you preetttyy ladies.... what do u look in a guy. it can't be all looks. what qualities does one look for in a guy

2006-12-29 08:16:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my partner has had a death threat made against her by her ex's uncle, the ex is in jail for rape against her, twice over and he blames her for him being locked away and hence he told his uncle and he then rang the cops-who her uncle is one-a cop and said that if we want her alive again we best not leave her by herself, she's now in witness protection for the next few days but now with this threat made against her I am thinking that he may make a threat against my life next, I just dont know, I told Laura that everythinjg will be ok but to be honest I dont know how to tell her that I think he may come at me next for aledgedly taking her away from him (dean the ex).......I really dont know how to tell Laura or what to do infact...ideas please

GENUINE ANSWERS ONLY THIS IS NO JOKE.
Mitch

2006-12-29 08:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so, theres this guy i like, i'm 13 and he's 16, but that doesn't matter. and i don't want you ppl to tell me "you're young, live you live then think of love," or " he's to old for you" anyway.
we're best friends and he knows i like him, but once while we wore talking, i told him that i: slit my wrist in atempt to kill myself, that i did ghb once, that i frenched a girl on a dare, that i looked at porn, and that i steal alot and lie all the time.
later after explaining why to everything. in a diffrent talk, i asked him if he likes me, he said he didn't know. and that he used to, but wouldn't give a time. i told him i was sorry for the things i had done and that i would never do them again. do you think theres hope for us. do you think he still likes me. do you think i made him not like me when i told him the things i had done. please help!

2006-12-29 08:16:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she ran off on her husband they with another man then she took the baby. she is stll married to another man. she has him so confused, she abuses the baby all the time andtries to convince him he will loose him if he doesnt pay her, how do i convince him that he doesnt have to pay her or let her have the baby until it goes to court, he is getting really depressed.

2006-12-29 08:15:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He hasn't seen her in over 6 months and they do have something to discuss, closer and what not. I can be understanding of that, it's just the fact he will be spending the night at her house. She lives a few hours away. He swears he will be on the couch and that he will not do anything with her. But she like still has a huge thing for him. I just don't know.... I'm uncomfortable with it, but am I over reacting?

2006-12-29 08:15:54 · 63 answers · asked by Cindy Lou Who 2 in Singles & Dating

I lived in Washington and now In Louisiana. I have been trying to get a divorce for more than 6 years and have been seperated for that long. He thinks we will someday get back together. NOT. I am with someone else now and he refuses to return correspondence or to answer me when I ask him about it. He has been in and out of jail for 7 years and is now in a mandatory treatment center for another 9 months till July what can I do. Calgon can't take me away from this one.

2006-12-29 08:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by krise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm my fathers illegitimate daughter (he has 6 boys with his wife), when I was 3 my Dad left G. He never paid childsupport and we had no contact. When I was 18 I startet to look for him and found him when I was 24. The next years, we saw each other once in a while (when I had enought money to buy a ticket to F.), but I wanted more. So I made up my mind, to move to B., where he lives. My father was shocked and tried to discourage me.Telling me it would be safer for me and my kids in Europe and that we would be on our own. Since 6 month we are here now, I have a job, friends & my kids are doing fine in school. Also it's tough, I don't regret it. My only problem is my father, he hasn't done anything to help us, but keeps telling me, that he expects me:
1. to behave like a lady
2. to date only first class guys (lawyers or doctors)
3. to save 10.000 $ in the next 2 years to buy a home (I earn 1400 $ a month!!!)
What's wrong with him? How can I tell him what I feel AND expect from him?

2006-12-29 08:13:51 · 16 answers · asked by bahamian.beauty 1 in Family

My husband HATES horror movies and I love them so me and a friend of mine who is another guy go out once in a rare while and see them. My husband is ok with it but when I go out with him we flirt and hold hands sometimes, but it's more comforting than sexual. Is that cheating?

2006-12-29 08:13:50 · 22 answers · asked by Tessa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it okay to text someone constantly while getting to know them, before officially going on a date?? Or should we just talk on the phone? What do you guys think about text messaging? Impersonal or no?

2006-12-29 08:13:40 · 5 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating

i have fallen for my biological sister...what should I do..

2006-12-29 08:13:32 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im getting married in 2 days and i dont know much about the girl and thinking about what is going to happen the night after i get married is scary what shoud i do?

2006-12-29 08:13:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughters 18 and works bringing home roughly £600 per month & i told her its £40 per month to pay towards housekeep, I told her once she started working then she has to pay her way & now I feel guilty taking Money off her, she goes out drinking ev sat into Leeds and is always well dressed, & she smokes. thing is though, i dont need the money off her, but my way of taking it is to push her into reality and realise that its no easy ride out there once you get your own house and you have the full responsibility of running her own place, Maybe im just a soft dad :(

2006-12-29 08:13:14 · 32 answers · asked by andy_pandemonium 1 in Family

I've known him for five years, we've been intimate for three years. I want to learn some subtle ways to get him to see me as more than just a good friend. I mean when he does get girlfriends he always comes runing to me w/his probs and when they're not putting out. so whats up with that? i'm confused

2006-12-29 08:12:10 · 25 answers · asked by silvery_moon_rays 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u think I am over reacting by believing that my husband treats me like a secretary. Example co-worker has mother pass away he sends me the e-mail sent from his company and ask me to get flowers out. I know no information about this person who his, married, children, family single (which would be important for the card enclosure) He is always asking me to do stuff like this. I hate it. I feel something important like this he should handle because if it isn't done correctly guess who gets blamed. He puts the baby crib together he tells me to put the instructions and left over screws away, he uses the screwdriver he tells me to put it away... he stands in front of the diswasher asking me "Are the dishes clean." As if he can't open the diswasher and look himself. He wants me to call his mother and wish her a happy birthday. I am really annoyed.

2006-12-29 08:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

his name is bryan gatchell hes not cute or anything but hes funny cool he loves wrestling and we are friends but he's mean to me sometimes but i like him what do i do...?

2006-12-29 08:11:16 · 12 answers · asked by mallismyhome 1 in Singles & Dating

he said "i feel really good talking to you " and "you are so very special to me"

2006-12-29 08:11:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seriously, what do ya think?

2006-12-29 08:11:02 · 26 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

n e time i go out with some one it seems like i can never start a conversation or seem to think of n e thing to say wat do i talk about

2006-12-29 08:11:00 · 3 answers · asked by cody02465 1 in Singles & Dating

*we are both 30yrs old
*she has a kid with this guy , they live together
*she has treated me better than sum grlfrds ive had
*i know they are having problems
*we were just supposed 2b sex buddies, but our feelings have gone beyond that

2006-12-29 08:10:09 · 6 answers · asked by 420_PimpDoc 2 in Singles & Dating

My little brother lives in another city with his mother. He is 16 yrs old. He came to stay with me for the holidays. He said he met a girl (his age) on myspace and asked me if I would let him go to the movies with her. They have only spoken my IM and by phone. Should I let him go? Should I go with him?

2006-12-29 08:09:00 · 4 answers · asked by Meinrebi 1 in Family

there is a guy that like but his 13 yrs my senior. I am 22 and he is 35. He also has 3 kids. Would it be bad to go on a couple of dates with him and get to know him better?

2006-12-29 08:08:49 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 08:08:32 · 22 answers · asked by shawn 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone ever feel trapped in their own home..??
Im a girl and my parents are very over protective. They log everytime I go out and have only one friend, where I work.

Im 22 and am doing a part time MBA at University so cant afford to move out. Im planning on visiting my friend in London (100 miles away) next week for 2 days. I feel sooo guilty because of what my parents will think. Should I be feeling this way?

I am indian and parents are very cultural........

2006-12-29 08:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay so heres the story. my husband and I are young and we are trying to get our lives cut out for us. We dont want any kids right now and he is very strong about this. he wants kids with me but he wants a stable lifestyle first which is completly respectable. The problems are that for one his best friend is having a baby and he is a little jealous of that and for the second problem.....he claimes he doesnt want a baby now but he wants to have unprotected sex and ejaculate inside of me. Also he wants to have sex every 2-3 days so his load is bigger. Does my man subconciously want a baby???

2006-12-29 08:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by cutiepie21106 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to let the world see me do things on cam what about you

2006-12-29 08:07:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 08:07:00 · 10 answers · asked by keronna g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Wedding Invitations.I want to create my own and print them off. Does anyone know of a website (UK) that can help me with this ?

2006-12-29 08:06:19 · 18 answers · asked by Byte 4 in Weddings