ok so, theres this guy i like, i'm 13 and he's 16, but that doesn't matter. and i don't want you ppl to tell me "you're young, live you live then think of love," or " he's to old for you" anyway.
we're best friends and he knows i like him, but once while we wore talking, i told him that i: slit my wrist in atempt to kill myself, that i did ghb once, that i frenched a girl on a dare, that i looked at porn, and that i steal alot and lie all the time.
later after explaining why to everything. in a diffrent talk, i asked him if he likes me, he said he didn't know. and that he used to, but wouldn't give a time. i told him i was sorry for the things i had done and that i would never do them again. do you think theres hope for us. do you think he still likes me. do you think i made him not like me when i told him the things i had done. please help!
2006-12-29 08:16:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the stuff you told him did have an impact on his feelings, then the feelings were probably not very strong to begin with. You shouldn't have to hide yourself or your experiences from anyone, especially someone that you care about and who cares about you. Eventually you will find someone that loves you for who you are and the past won't matter one bit.
2006-12-29 08:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mike J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe that honesty was and is the best policy. But I have overwhlmed two guys with too much information. One because Ihad lied to him for years about what a nice girl I was...the other because I loved him deeply and wanted him to know the truth...the truth hurts...and sooner or later someone in my family would have told him. My father has a tendency to tell alot of things about me. I didn't ave to open my mouth at all this Christmas...my family knew everything before I got out of bed.
I guess what I am saying is if he accepts all of these things maybe he does love you...on the other hand...would it have hurt to be silent??? To not tell until asked?
2006-12-29 08:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious you are young, you have not learned the meaning of discretion. The main reason he is not going to like you back; the way you want him to is because, even though you don't want the people responding to you to say you are to young. He knows you are; there for, he would rather put you off. Then go to jail. Let's put it in perspective; if he took his education seriously. He is either a junior or a young senior in high school. Now, you on the other hand at thirteen you are either in the 7th, 8th or 9th grade. Either way still in or fresh out of middle school. To any male over the age of puberty that's jail time.
2006-12-29 08:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you made him not like you.
Don't give everything away in the beginning of a friendship or relationship. Let the person get to know you little by little. He was probably overwhelmed. And whatever you do don't be sorry for who you are and what you have done. You haven't done anything that has not been done before. THAT DOESN'T MEAN KEEP HURTING YOURSELF!
2006-12-29 08:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Zee Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it unless he himself has a strict religious up bringing. My opinion is that if the guy is nuts about you then most of that stuff wouldn't matter. Maybe you just found out he wasn't carzy about you AFTER he listened to you say all that stuff.
2006-12-29 08:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, rule number 1 is NEVER tell anybody EVERYTHING about yourself! Keep some things a secret, especially things you think are "cool" and "cute", and are obviously disgusting at your age.
2006-12-29 08:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop lying stealing and trying to commit suicide. Once you stop all that then things will go better and guys probably won't be so taken back by you
2006-12-29 08:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_roo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first
stop hirting ur self!!
Just be U!!!!!!!!
dont do anything u dont want to!
and just live life 1 day @ a time
im sure if u just act like ur self
that this guy will like u
and if he doesnt screw him im sure u can find someone better
2006-12-29 08:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sage Elizabethhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of this from his point of view 1st of all
and if this dude liked u 4 u, he would still like u now that he knows your 'secret', to me he sounds like a jerk. its clear u need help, how can someone turn you down? find someone else and make him see what he missed.
2006-12-29 08:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, you pretty much blew it. don't bother guys with your baggage. you don't need to share stuff like that. it's a total turn off. makes you sound unstable and strange.
2006-12-29 08:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋