Do u think I am over reacting by believing that my husband treats me like a secretary. Example co-worker has mother pass away he sends me the e-mail sent from his company and ask me to get flowers out. I know no information about this person who his, married, children, family single (which would be important for the card enclosure) He is always asking me to do stuff like this. I hate it. I feel something important like this he should handle because if it isn't done correctly guess who gets blamed. He puts the baby crib together he tells me to put the instructions and left over screws away, he uses the screwdriver he tells me to put it away... he stands in front of the diswasher asking me "Are the dishes clean." As if he can't open the diswasher and look himself. He wants me to call his mother and wish her a happy birthday. I am really annoyed.
2006-12-29 08:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Email him an itemized bill for your services and see how it makes him feel. Maybe he'll get a clue that he's being an insensitive lug head.
2006-12-29 08:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hun...
Marriage is a two way street...I understand that men expect us to do
certain things..we are just plain better at some than they are.
You need to air your concerns with him...not us..
But about somethings you mentioned....he put the crib together...good...I would rather put the screwdriver away that do the whole assembly of said crib.
Remember...look at the positive before chucking the whole thing to the negative column.
But definitely, calmly, talk to him about your feelings...but don't assault him with it....by throwing things in his face...he's going to get defensive.
Start out with..."listen I have a few things I need to talk with you about....not that I don't appreciate your trust that I can handle all these things...but.."
Give it a try...
2006-12-29 16:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nibbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might want to make a New Year's Resolution not to continue on with this. It seems that he expects the world to revolve around him...time for a wake up call as he isn't going through life alone!
Good luck.
2006-12-29 16:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since ur hubby treats u like his secretary, then u would never afraid his love affair with the secretary, becuz it's YOU!!!lol anyway, yea, it's annoying, as a wife, u deserved more than that, try to talk to him...good luck!
2006-12-29 16:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by monroe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been written that most men fantasize about thier secretary.
Mabye you could play on that.
wink-wink, nudge-nudge
2006-12-29 16:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most men are like that
2006-12-29 16:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by CrippledFingerz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So tell him how you feel.
2006-12-29 16:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to sit and talk with him
2006-12-29 16:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by no name. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋