i have fallen for my biological sister...what should I do..
2006-12-29 08:13:32 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ew ew ew ew ew, back of her!!
2006-12-29 08:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by no name. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it goes deeper than just having a crush. Like maybe you havent had a good relationship with your mother so you are clinging to the next closes person. I dont think you have feelings for her (if so see a therapist, thats not normal) I think you just want to be loved and are confused. Most men well almost all men do not even think of there sister in any type of sexual way. You should really consider seeing a therapist to find out where this is really coming from and why. Then you should address it ASAP. Do not tell your sister you have feelings for her she will eb totally creeped out.
2006-12-29 08:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by chaneltaylor430 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some may laugh or others make jokes , but it is a serious thing, been there done that, Admiting it in front of a million people isn't easy.
But on the lighter note, I don't know how old you are,or the age of your sister. there are many types of love in this world you just have to START by sorting out which type of love it is that you are dealing with. Second question ? does she know. ?
That kind of heart break can really tear your heart apart.
Start by telling her, then see what happens.
If you choose a litle one on one , my wife and I both are here to listen. email is a good thing.
Best of Luck to you.
2006-12-29 08:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly,
you should think about what you have just said.
Secondly,
if you are entirely sure that you do love her,
make sure it's a sexual attraction,
not just the bond between brother and sister.
Thirdly,
tell someone. An agony aunt or someone
you know won't judge you for what you are
to tell them. Not forgetting someone who'll
keep most definately quiet.
Lastly,
resolve your issue with that person/s
and then do what you think is best for your situation.
2006-12-29 09:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by scenekidspam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should seek counciling for this. It is not natural to love your sister in this way and could cause really bad problems in your family as well. If you think you really love her, then love her enough to get help. If you are a teen you can do this on your own by seeking assistance through your local Family Health Clinic.
So sorry for your problem
2006-12-29 08:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, you need some severe counsoling, what is wrong with you???? this is not normal. Where you so closed up as a child and not allowed to be around others than your family or what??? Seek Help this is not normal. You must be kidding or you are just plain sick.
2006-12-29 08:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by blueigurl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help. this could be very bad for your family. How did you fall for your sister in the first place? Need more details before i can give you a true answer.
2006-12-29 08:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by LC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a bat and hit your head with it saying, "I am a silly and deranged boy."
Stop your confused mind from causing you to make a capital mistake. If you cannot handle your estranged urge, see a psychiatrist as soon as possible. You are behaving like a complete as*hole!!
2006-12-29 08:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray, pray, pray man! The only reason you are having a lusting for your sister is a demonic spirit possessing your soul. Any type of lusting, addiction, or unholy feeling is a spirit you allow to overtake you. It is only Satan himself working on your mind in order for you to turn your love and reverence from the Lord Jesus Christ. You don't want your sister, the devil just wants your soul. Since you know it's a problem, the Heavenly Father is obviously working on your heart in order for you to turn to him.
Remember, the Lord works on our hearts and Satan works on our minds. We are not condemned for our thoughts because the Lord knows our hearts and if we truly love him. It's just like when someone tells you they love you. You can tell if they really mean it or not. Therfore, pray to the Lord to set you free of the lust you have for your sister. Jesus Christ was sent here to save our souls from these unholy spirits. The only thing we have to do is confess with our hearts our sins and that Jesus died on the cross for our transgressions and arose 3 days later. And he is always with us. So, like I said pray and say this, "Satan, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus!" He hates that name! If you truly believe in your Creator this will take the lust for your sister away. Amen
2006-12-29 08:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Rabbit's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is really weird. you should really go see a therapist or something so u can talk about with someone and maybe u can get it out of ur head cuz u cant like ur sister its just wrong and disgusting. go get help NOW!!
2006-12-29 08:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be with her, it is just not right. I am not gonna put you down or anything. of course you love her she is your sister. But, you can't. It just isn't right. Think about it some, but the choice is yours to make, not no one else. and the comments the people put about Mississippi that is just stupid. I am from Mississippi, and it doesnt mean a damn thing, you stupid prick, grow up. bunch of retards
2006-12-29 08:18:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋