I dont know what to do!!! ADVICE PLEASE?

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I dont know what to do!!! ADVICE PLEASE?

my partner has had a death threat made against her by her ex's uncle, the ex is in jail for rape against her, twice over and he blames her for him being locked away and hence he told his uncle and he then rang the cops-who her uncle is one-a cop and said that if we want her alive again we best not leave her by herself, she's now in witness protection for the next few days but now with this threat made against her I am thinking that he may make a threat against my life next, I just dont know, I told Laura that everythinjg will be ok but to be honest I dont know how to tell her that I think he may come at me next for aledgedly taking her away from him (dean the ex).......I really dont know how to tell Laura or what to do infact...ideas please

GENUINE ANSWERS ONLY THIS IS NO JOKE.
Mitch

2006-12-29 08:16:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships

NO I didnt take her from Dean at all, he just thinks I did, we both know its a lie that he's conjering for no good reason, he has also said that he wants to finsih what he started when he gets out and wants me to come and watch, Laura's uncle knows and they are off to court about this on Tuesday...and other threats that he (Dean) has made against me and Laura

2006-12-29 08:17:54 · update #1

magistrate says Laura HAS TO have meetings with Dean, she hates them but magistrate thinks he can be rehabilited BULLSHIT he has raped her twice, I want him locked in prison for life but that wont happen :( the system here in Australia is to ******* weak I think, he is now in for 16 yrs and wants to come for me when he gets out and also finish what he started with

2006-12-29 08:33:14 · update #2

2006-12-29 08:34:28 · update #3

6 answers

Try to get any threats made on record. If you can tape phone conversations with them, do it. If they write anything, keep it. Get a lawyer, and with the lawyer, go to the (cop) uncle's supervisor and tell them what's been going on. Consult a lawyer anyway, they will know better than anyone what to do.

2006-12-29 08:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋

You're only guessing that the next threat will be against you. This type of guy enjoys the fear a threat causes (especially if it's directed at someone they perceive to be 'vulnerable'), it would be unusual for someone to warn you first to put you on alert. Like all bullies if you stand up to him, he'll probably back down or more likely nothing more will happen if he thinks he can't intimidate you. If I were you I would be extra vigilant and enlist the help of others in being vigilant especially other people around your partner (colleagues, family). There is always a tiny possibility that this guy is actually a psycho, in which case you'll need the help of the Police/legal system. Can you get an injunction to stop him contacting/approaching your partner? Can you change your phone number? Can you report him to his superior at work?

2006-12-29 08:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

Go to the police! Also I don't think she is in thew witness protection because they do not do it for just a couple of days. Maybe you should move away and start a life some where else. Also get a retraining order or order of protection!

2006-12-29 08:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Get him first dont be a whiner. Too easy. Get into the prision email system and put the inmates on him. Inmates hate rapists and childmolestors. As far as anyone on the out. they will destroy themselfs.

2006-12-29 08:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋

Hire a private investigative and security agency to advise you through this ordeal.

2006-12-29 08:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

well the olny answer i can give you is move somewhere this person cant find you to be happy together

2006-12-29 08:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋