2006-12-29 07:35:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She had cheated on me with this guy. Then I go to get my stuff back from her and he wants to shake my hand and say hello, like she didn't tell him that I knew they were sleeping together. (I found out later that he did infact know *@ss*)
So I acted outwardly and broken his jaw in two places, and cracked a rib or two. (I'm an exboxer, and that much anger just causes an automated responce)
2006-12-29 07:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internally, were the feelings of reinforcement of my original ideas as to why she left me. (Besides and including/having to do with other outside influences which made this separation a reality) Externally, but without the intention to do such, and with the effort to NOT do such, so as not to be rude by both effort and intentions-I laughed at their match in compatibility of looks together. But as she did tell me shortly before I moved out (some things really stick inside your head)>> "I will never be with somone who is so good-looking again" At the time, I didn't know WHY and HOW this was so hurtful to me, in so many ways-But now I do.
2006-12-29 15:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprised and disappointed at the person he chose. but for the most part i was cool. it had been a while since we had broke up so it wasn't that bad. that and the fact that it was i that had broken it up in the first place. we had a conversation like we were still friends. other ex's (those who had broken up with me) i was steaming and i acted like an acquaintance-said hi and kept walking. i would obsess a little about what i had done wrong, but then realized that it just wasn't meant to be and got over it.
2006-12-29 15:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by cjadedred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. just to be honest,
the first time I saw my ex with his someone new while I was still single, I was like, a lil bit nervous and I didn't know what to do!
Should I go stop by and say hi? Or should I just prentending they weren't there.. and then my ex smile, and introduce me with his new GF.. and everything's fine! we're still friends.. Just remember : smile!
2006-12-29 15:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by LiL PumPkiN♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, had he not got her pregnant while she was still married to me I might have actually felt sorry for him but I don't and am now enjoying watching him be miserable. I know because he tells and my kids tell me they fight all the time.
Honestly, though, for most when they see their ex with another person is when they know if they are really over them or not
2006-12-29 15:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by me2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex was with a friend of mine. I know him and he is a good person. I was happy to see them together because I know they would be happy. But I of course had mixed emotions. He would succeed where I failed. He would be with her in ways that only I used to be. It was a confusing time for me. I was glad to see her so happy and sad to know I couldn't have been the one to make her happy. I will reserve the details of our divorce but I will say this ... our divorce was not for the reasons of her or myself cheating.
2006-12-29 15:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt. It's very difficult to imagine your ex having feelings for someone other than you...but in time you'll find someone who will complete you...trust me...in time...
2006-12-29 15:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time I was literally sick.
The next time I was relieved and felt sorry for the other girl.
2006-12-29 15:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Outside, I was nice and said hi. Inside, I was a little hurt.
2006-12-29 15:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Internally.
I said hello. I then went home and felt sick.
2006-12-29 15:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋