there is this girl someone i know who is in 5th who gets picked by this girl who use to be her friend. she wants to have revenge and im willing to help
2006-12-29 07:36:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This isnt probably what you want to hear, but revenge is not the thing to do, especially in 5th grade. Tell your friend to hold her head high. There will be much meaner people she has to face during the course of middle and high school. If she gets on really bad terms with this girl then thats one person who will be vicious to her for many years to come. All you can do is just be your friends support and let everythign the mean girl says fly over your heads.
2006-12-29 07:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel K 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is always a better idea to be peacemaker instead of war warrior. You need bigger heart to be a peacemaker because you have to be able to forgive others. By the way, I don't think you can ruin other people's life without ruining your own. Once you go to that dark path, you will make a lot other decisions which are pretty dark in your life. Before you realize, you are already a BAD person. But if you still choose to revenge, then I would suggest you to do something fun, then you have some good memories when you grow older. One of my boy friends helped me to revenge a girl by kissing her in public in 8th grade, and told her that this is just a revenge. The girl was so embarrassed, of course the parents were involved, but the boy just smiled all through. I couldn't believe he was so brave. I still have contact with that boy, he is really the most fun person. Bring a lot of laughs and smiles to people around him.
2006-12-29 07:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by chocolate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents, and the school people. Don't stoop to her level. After all if she's in the 5th grade, she is a child too.
Besides, I wouldn't help you to harm someone else, even if that person deserved it. I know bully's can ruin lives, but I think that becoming a bully, would really harm you more.
2006-12-29 07:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Belix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart tell your friend to let it go and move on. Revenge is a very dangerous thing if you take it into your own hands and it will have you regretting later. As life goes on you won't have to worry about revenge, life will get it's own revenge, it happens everytime and you won't have to do a thing. Whoever it is isn't even worth it. Your girlfriend needs to be the bigger person and just let it go and move on.
2006-12-29 07:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by musicisme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that getting revenge is the best answer. There may be a part of her story that you dont know. I dont think you should do something that you are going to regret. You should be teaching this little girl how to feel better without getting revenge. I mean, your morals are all wrong.
2006-12-29 07:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cyn A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know this might sound like something your mom would say, but i think it is so stupid to go after someone and ruin their lives. in few years you won't even go to the same school, may be from next year. one person has to act mature. but i know it is hard. may be talk to a friend, or just stand up to that person or make fun of something of them, rather than ruinin life of someone...
2006-12-29 07:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by answerer101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your 5th grade. Stay out of it, and tell your little girlfriend to grow up.
2006-12-29 07:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~Brown Eyes~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do that let God handle it you do not need the stress that will bring you and you do not want to get in trouble for if someone gets hurt the cops could be called
2006-12-29 07:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ela J Pete 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ruin her life by studying and making better grade. Concentrate on that...
2006-12-29 07:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
put a love note in a boys locker from her saying that she has a major crush on him and ask him out in the note
say write back and give note to you or the girl thats getting picked on
ive done this it works
2006-12-29 07:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by jessie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋