Ive been trying to get over my ex but i simply cant... He seemed to be so honest and we were together for over a year. He had to be with me for a reason (I know it wasnt intercourse) But everything was going so good. But then I figured out he was cheating on me and I left him. He didnt seem to care. But now I really miss him. I cant live without him...I've tried so hard to get over him but I simply can't someone PLEASE help!
2006-12-29 07:09:02 · 6 answers · asked by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to give yourself time to grieve. You should be proud of yourself for having the courage to change your life...that is very hard to do!!! The guy has moved on and probably has found another victim...why would you want to be with someone that does not care for you anymore?! There are lots of guys out there that want to be with you!!!
Everyone has been thru the same senerio as you and we have all survived and found someone else. After you have given yourself time to grieve, go out and find something to do...to occupy your time. You'll meet new people and your feelings for your old bf will start fading! Soooo...good luck!!!
2006-12-29 07:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish there was something I could say or do to truly help. All I can do is highlight some of the points you have made. You felt he was honest with you but yet he cheated. SO therefore the trust you had between you and him has been shattered. I think you need to surround yourself with your friends go out and enjoy yourself. In time you will find a man whom you can trust and with whom you can build a relationship just do not settle. Keep telling yourself that you deserve better then that. The thoughts and along with it the pain will slowly dissipitate. It is true that time will cure all. I hope this has helped some.
2006-12-29 07:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As callous as this sounds, time heals all things. Some people rebound quickly, some people take a long time to get over people (I have this problem too). All I can recommend is to spend some time with family and friends. Try spending time doing things you enjoy doing. Just focus on getting through one day at a time. Each day gets just a tiny bit better (it won't feel like it, but it really does). I wish you the best. Stay strong.
2006-12-29 07:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by JC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could cling to a relationship that will never fail. There's always the possiblity of failure in human relationships because you're basically dealing with 2 imperfect people trying to get along using their imperfect points of view to navigate. There is only one relationship that involves someone who is imperfect with someone who is perfect. That is a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. He never lets you down. He never cheats on you. He will love you more than anyone has ever or will ever. He is completely reliable and trustworthy. What do you have to lose?
2006-12-29 07:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tyr_74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel hunny, but you can't go back to him. If he cheats on you once, then he will do it again. He doesn't respect you like he should, and if you go back to him then he will hurt you again. Especially if he didn't seem to care that you left him...
Stay strong girl! How dare he treat you that way! You are special and should be treated like a princess. That's my motto and it seems to have worked with my last relationship.
2006-12-29 07:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.
2006-12-29 07:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sabine É 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋