well my boyfriend broke up with me on msn, we haven't spoken for a few weeks now but i'm going back to collage this week and know i will run into him, i'm still finding it hard to get over him somedays i hate him, somedays i want him back. He messed around with my feelings alot usually when we were talking online (which i hate because your not talking to them face to face)when ever we were together however we were fine. Even his best friend doesn't understand him. i know he did have some issues with his family however he would never talk about them, he is also in a band and had little time for me but the time we did share was great how do i move on? really want a clean start for 2007 but can't stop thinking about him and apart of me does want him back its funny to think that he was the one runing after me and now it looks as if i'm doing the same i don't want to appear desperate but the last time we were together we were fine, then on msn he breaks up with me. so confused
2006-12-29 07:17:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to your local fratt house
2006-12-29 07:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pleeeease what ever you do, don't become desperate. If you never want to see him again; become an insecure desperate girl begging and chasing him to come back to you so he can take away any low self-esteem you have left. You should become the total opposite. Find some value in yourself, you're in college; engulf yourself into your studies, hang out with some new people, change yourself for the better from with in; then he will find you attractive. Guess what? And so will some other guys. After that, you may feel so good about who you are; you may not even want him back.
2006-12-29 07:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back with this guy, not only for your own well being but for his as well. It sounds like he need some serious time alone to figure himself out!!
I think the best way to get over him is try not to think about it. I know that hard but everytime your mind starts to wander do something else, call a friend, go for a walk, throw yourself into your studys and maybe something positive can come out of a bad ending.
I hope you can learn to move on and realise guy aren't everything. People lose themselves a bit when they start a relationship with someone so take time out to be you again and do the things you love to do.
Good luck for 2007
2006-12-29 07:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a different college if you can, because if you are on a small campus and you run into him constantly, you will be back square one everyday with longing for him, fresh as the day you broke up. If you can't, try this: go only to classes by the straightest way possible, avoid popular areas and hang outs for awhile and focus on your classes. You need to give yourself time and space to sort this all out in your head, and running into such a playa constantly isn't going to help you one iota.
2006-12-29 07:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by congeeman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Your issue is going to take some time. Try to focus on other things and just take it one day at a time. After awhile though, the pain will lessen until you can function normally again.
2006-12-29 07:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Blitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your college must be a bigger campus so just take a different way to classes and whatnot... but then you need to decide first whether you want him back or you want to let go... make that decision first then act on whatever you choose... it seems like this guy has communication issues... thats kinda important in a relationship you know? well its really your choice... decide then act.... best of luck to you
2006-12-29 07:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't be a problem since you will be spending a LOT of time in remedial spelling classes.
If you had misspelled "college" only once, I would have thought it a typo. More than once and I think it's time to seriously reconsider where my parent's education fund was spent.
2006-12-29 07:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by Vince M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would start hanging out with differen people,
to first get your him off of your mind outsie of school.
try concentrating on something different, something
occupying and that you find fun.
if he's not on your mind in the first place [while you're enjoying yourself] then you wouldnt want to drag yourself down thinking of how confused he made you.
2006-12-29 07:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on your school work, your true happiness comes from your dream, so chase that and don't strain yourself over old news.
2006-12-29 07:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by kaizoku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
collage?
2006-12-31 04:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by timbo44b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋