I am starting to miss my ex a little.I don't want to,but,every night I dream about him,and I always think about him.But,he acts like he doesn't want to get back together with me.I am trying to get over him,and not feel this way about him.Help?
2006-12-29 07:06:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be hard for yourself and time will be the answer ik guess
2006-12-29 07:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Taci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the song says "breaking up is hard to do". It is natural for you to miss your ex. I agree with those that said getting out would be good for you. Now is the time to keep busy with family and friends. Remember, love always walks through the door when you least expect it. You said your ex has made it clear that he isn't interested in getting back together with you, don't degrade yourself by chasing him. Chances are pretty good that if you don't call him, and go on with your life, he may decide that he misses you as well. It's human nature to want what we can't have! But ask yourself this, what was your relationship like? If he should call you today are you 100 percent sure that taking him back would be the best thing for you? Hang in there! Things definitely will get better, and the darkest hour is just before dawn.
Good luck!
2006-12-29 07:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over a love is VERY difficult. Only time can ease that pain. And it's a LONG time. Try not thinking about all the really good times. I definitely always find myself thinking about all the happy times I had with my ex. Think about the reasons why you broke up. The arguing...whatever. Try to remember some of the bad stuff. If you can't remember anything bad...call him. He'll probably say something stupid that'll piss you off. Then you won't miss him so much!!
2006-12-29 07:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok honest answer, it's not going to be easy. But you have to stay strong. Don't give in to those feelings. Yes you're going to miss him, it's only natural especially if you really liked him or even loved him. And dreams are just mirrors of our thoughts during the day so it just means you're thinking about him too much. If he doesn't want to get back together then LET HIM GO. You deserve someone who wants you as much as you want them. It's not going to be easy getting over him but just do anything, read, write, listen to music (non romantic) to keep your mind off of him.
2006-12-29 07:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the same thing right now. My best advice for you is let your mind clean itself like it is doing. Meanwhile get involved stay out of the house and move on! Don't make someone love you it will never work out. If he is doggin you dont be a pussy cat and dont bite back. Move on and let him know it. Dont speak until you are ready.
2006-12-29 07:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best cure for this is hanging out with friends. Take a break from romance and enjoy being single again. An active social life is the best cure for loneliness.
2006-12-29 07:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why your broke up. If it his fault then don't do it!!! you will lose your POWER, always keep the ball in your court:)
If it's your fault and you really want him back, then give him some space - just a few days and call him "just 2 C how u'r doing" type of call...
why did you break up?
2006-12-29 07:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by co_co22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else that will help you forget about your ex. Move on - you never know he may see that you have moved on and that may trigger him to want to get back with you. But, would you really want to though? Points to ponder.
2006-12-29 07:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, best bet would be to hit the dating game again. one thing you cant do is make yourself vulnerable to him, if he doesnt want you back, dont lower yourself, you can do better. it might be hard for a while, but when you find the next guy, you wont even remember your ex....or u can just stalk him!
2006-12-29 07:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by alton956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's made it clear he's not interested in getting back with you. You need to find someone else to dream about! If he doesn't want you, you don't want him, trust me! Get out, make friends, get involved. You'll meet someone else who will begin to occupy your thoughts, your time, and your dreams!
2006-12-29 07:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by ann46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is he just trying to get you mad or does he just not want to get back with you...try talking to other guys and get him jealous if he does want you back and if he doesnt get jealous youll know he wants t to be over...Best wishes
2006-12-29 07:31:41 · answer #11 · answered by Nitsua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋