2006-12-29 06:34:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
reverse cowgirl! try new positions....dress up... buy toys... involve a girl friend of yours to join in.... blowjobs..anal maybe take one for the team?
2006-12-29 06:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Linds 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's not you who has to change. If it is you then try to be more sensual. There isn't a cookie cutter definition for that so you'll have to find out what your boyfriend considers sensual then try that on him.
You say sex with him isn't good right now? Is it the length of the act, or just the way he or you go about it? Are your moves good, but not his or visa-a-versa? Try watching an adult movie (by yourself so you don't have to watch him drooling over the inflated pornstars) then maybe try some of the moves on him. Not all of them becuse some aren't meant to be used between two people that actually care about one another..but some of them might be alright and might add a little spice to your love life. Good luck.
2006-12-29 14:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by crazylifer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure you overexpose your underexposed clothes when in a big crown of people like in the mall or something. Also make sure you have him go to the lingerie store with you and tell him which outfit to pay for you. He will see that everyone is checking you out and will internally get jelous of a whole bunch of starngers and when you finnally get some alone time he will have you like it was the first time. Just be carefull and don't lose an eye because he will remind you of a volcano that you have never seen before.
2006-12-29 14:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Hoping this is a real question..."
In who's mind is the sex starting to fail, yours or his? If it's your issue, change things up! Try different positions, moods, locations, etc.
If he has expressed something to you, listen. Ask what the issue is. If you're not in a relationship that will allow that, try new things, slowly. If they're met with approval, keep at it.
(BTW, I have to agree with another post, reverse cowgirl is usually a crowd pleaser...)
2006-12-29 14:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by mindless_torment01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U shouldnt need to get his attention for better sex but why not try going out and buying a sexy outfit to get him all hotttttttt
2006-12-29 14:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apply a little air of mystery. Give out less details about what you're doing and keep him guessing your next move. That should catch him. Boys like to feel like they're conquering or unraveling something...That's why men still look for virgins.
2006-12-29 14:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Scientist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he isn't interested in having sex. You will know when he is because he will pay more attention tp you.
2006-12-29 14:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just take over guys love it when a woman takes control in the bed room or do it somwhere else who says sex has to be done only in the room
2006-12-29 14:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by carol t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dress up, strip for him, give him a lap dance, write him sexy notes and leave them around. Get that anticipation built up so he can't wait to get his hands on you!
2006-12-29 14:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not about what you wear or what you do. It's in the tone of your voice and the twinkle in your eye.
And guys love to know when they make their girl -crave- them. Tell him so.
2006-12-29 14:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by dagorath1123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋