my friend spies all the time on her boyfriends but recently shes asked me to help...i think its so wrong...ive told her this but she thinks im being unreasonable...what do you think??
2006-12-29 06:31:17 · 10 answers · asked by witchywoman_1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her no! your friend as ISSUES
this could be considered stalking in some courts of law.
If YOU feel uncomfortable with it, imagine how this poor guy feels.
Dont encourage that behavior, the next time she suggests it, tell her no and take her to a movie or some other fun activity that will take her mind off of him. YOu sound like a great friend and she needs you right now, she is showing some very bad relationship signs and without help these will cause her lots of problems in the future if she does not stop, besides, what fun is this spying for YOU?
2006-12-29 06:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is anything wrong with spying. For the most part when people are doing things behind your back they wont tell you. The only way to find out is to spy. If it makes you feel uncomfortable just let her know that you want no part of it.
2006-12-29 06:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like this, who needs enemies. You have a toxic relationship with this so called friend. No one, no one who calls themselves a friend would EVER ask a person to help them spy on her boyfriend.
Run, don't walk - away from this "friendship". She will manipulate and use you in other ways for things you really don't feel comfortable with. This is just the beginning.
2006-12-29 06:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by LABL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good is your friend's relationship if she feels that she can't trust her boyfriend? It sounds like she's a bit of an insecure person who has issues with trust. That kind of behavior isn't going to fly too well if the boyfriend finds out about it.
2006-12-29 06:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a great line between being "creepy" and merely being there on the right second. If this is like all time you commence kissing and he or she is there, then sure, it truly is creepy. besides the actual incontrovertible truth that if this is very few cases even as she's there, she might want to easily be there on the right second. If she's your perfect pal, search for suggestion from such as her! perfect friends must be able to search for suggestion from with one yet another, in spite of their inner maximum emotions. a real perfect pal might want to keep it between themselves and also you...
2016-12-01 07:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she has trust issues. spying on him is wrong start spying on her and see how she feels about it. she needs to learn to trust him or get out of the relationship she doesn't deserve him
2006-12-29 06:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to do anything you dont want to and you are being a good friend so dont worry about it. You are not being unreasonable. Let her think what she wants to.
2006-12-29 06:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns. Don't participate. You don't want to be in the middle of it when her boyfriend finds out. Find a kind way to tell her this...
2006-12-29 06:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do you not trust your boyfriend? if you do trust him, and have no suspicions theres no reason to spy
2006-12-29 06:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has more than one boyfriend? she has problems.
2006-12-29 06:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋