Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

i'm overloaded i with three boys ages 9, 4, and 11weeks and a husband that i only get along with about 25% of the time. i'm 26 and have been with hubby for almost 6 years and i need some ideas to relieve the stress, because i think that i'm gonna go nuts

2006-12-27 08:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked my crush if he wanted to hang out sometime and he said sure. But that was about a week ago and he hasn't mentioned it to me since. Does this mean he doesn't want to? Or could he be just too shy? How can I bring it up to ask him again? I really want to hang out with him.

2006-12-27 08:25:22 · 12 answers · asked by LindsayS 2 in Singles & Dating

How can you locate a friend for free on the internet? Preferrably to find a cell phone number.

2006-12-27 08:24:09 · 2 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I are not very familiar with all of this stuff. Recently his money hungry x has been threatening him to take him back to the courts to raise the pay and to get him on backsupport. They made an agreement on the child support which he has been paying ever since on time through checks. Now that she's mad cuz he's giving her the money all at one time at the end of the month and not every two weeks she's going to say that he hasn't paid anything since it never went through the courts. He does has proof that he's been paying, but what got me thinking is that they have joint custody and he pays for everything because she takes the money for her and her new bf instead. Can he get backchild support on her since she hasn't been paying for anything? I know every state is differant, but here in AZ can this be possible? If anyone can help with advise other than get a lawyer, it would be great. thanks

2006-12-27 08:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don’t even have a girlfriend so I don’t know why I am posting this.

We are all on the way to our own unique destinations in life at different rates taking different routes, different places and at different times. Imagine your life is a wavelength of ups and downs leading to your destination. Maybe there is a 5 year difference in age between you 2 and it just happens to be that when you meet you happen to both be at the same place in life and going the same direction. Problem is if you have a vastly different destination, route or speed then in fact as time progresses your wavelengths will continue to distance from each other revealing more so how different you really are.

Essentially your wavelengths crossed and kept going but at the moment when they crossed and for a reasonable time before and after the crossing these 2 people could be highly compatible.

2006-12-27 08:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by shawnrgregg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have been going with him for a while now and everytime I tell him I love him.I feel as though as he doesn't belive me...PLEASE HELP ME!

2006-12-27 08:23:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:22:50 · 15 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't stop asking myself if he is going to change. I know I have talked about this subject but its still on my mind. He hates my parents and parents don't like him but he says he loves me and what he did in the past he is sorry for but he has always said i will change and he does for about a couple of weeks and then he is back to his old self. and i don't know what to believe should i give him another chance after i have given him many or try someone new that is showing how it feels to be treated nicely? but the bad thing is i really do love him ...but he is my first love though but i just want to find happiness and sometimes i feel like he can give it to me but then he just treats me bad again and then we fight again?

2006-12-27 08:22:45 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Singles & Dating

I love her but I know I am not physically attracted to her, should I keep this from her or let her know how I feel?

2006-12-27 08:22:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want a cell phone because most of the people in my class got one or more cell phone. My parents are extra cheap. They always show their cell phones in my face, I want a cell phone or a motorazor. What should I do.

2006-12-27 08:21:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known him 4ever and he's really cute and I think I'm falling for him. What do I do?

2006-12-27 08:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there's a girl with a boyfriend. but she meets a guy that she truly connects with and they both fall in love? Cant it haoppen that someone can find someone that they mnay be better off with than the current person? realizinf maybe that current person isnt right for them?

2006-12-27 08:21:22 · 13 answers · asked by V P 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know, but I seem to be the only person among my mates that meets virgin girls in their twenties. I've had to avoid this 3 times. I don't know if there's a phobia for this.
Does any other male get this feeling?

2006-12-27 08:20:47 · 17 answers · asked by osi.psychologist 2 in Singles & Dating

please if anyone can help found out she was living with her daughter and partner martin in cowfold west sussex running cafe in 2001 but not sure now just would love to here from her

2006-12-27 08:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by rabbit18 2 in Friends

I married in the US, and my wife is still in US and I have no marriage record in UK. Can I register a marriage with another woman in UK? Is it a polygamy?

2006-12-27 08:19:41 · 16 answers · asked by Beckham 2 in Marriage & Divorce

with all the questions about affairs and cheating....if someone would make it approachable to have an affair with......regardless if your partner acted on it or not....is it his/her fault for allowing someone to think an affair is possible....or is it possible for someone to mistaken a door being open for that possibilty?

i had an affair with a married man before. i was in a long term relationship. i am no longer with that person. but i allowed that affair to take place. i made myself available for one to happen. once it happened...i had no intention of stopping it. i just wanted another outlook of those that where in a position to have an affair but chose not to. was there a playful idea of one starting...but you backed out before anything started?

2006-12-27 08:19:28 · 14 answers · asked by Bella 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 08:19:00 · 7 answers · asked by mprice9802 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I did. It's a joke! They match you on 29 levels. They forgot the 30th: Looks! Every single woman they matched me with was morbidly obese! I don't need a Paris Hilton. I love a girl with curves and a few extra pounds. But good grief! This was pathetic!

2006-12-27 08:18:35 · 11 answers · asked by jare bare 6 in Singles & Dating

I've been casually dating a guy for a little over 4 months. I like him and think there could be a possibility for a serious relationship. He has told me that he likes me alot and it's pretty clear. He has also made it clear that he is upset about the current situation but can't really do anything about it. He has a "friend" from out of the country here currently visiting him for 2 weeks. She has been here for 1 week already. He says the plans were made before we met and could not be changed due to the air tickets already being bought. Anyways, the girl is staying at his house. I'm sure going to holiday events with him and doing stuff with him (she doesn't know anyone here)...and we have seen each other once since she's been hear. Yet he calls me daily and text me. I really like him, but I'm starting to wonder if I should even be available once his friend leaves. Should I trust that they are just friends? Or is the situation too suspect? Should I leave it alone and say "Next"?

2006-12-27 08:18:26 · 17 answers · asked by You Don't Know Me! 4 in Singles & Dating

i have not talk to her in 2 or 3 months and she broke up with me i dont get it

2006-12-27 08:18:03 · 9 answers · asked by jeremiah 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance mother think everything is about her. she don't come see her grandkids unless she needs something done for her. she has two other kids and they don't have any kids. this christmas was the horrible christmas we've very had toghter. she didn't get very much for my fiance and her two other kids got like 800. a peiceon chirstmas presents.know he don't want her to see our kids.she been in a hospial cause she went crazy many time she's unstable.she has mutiply personality disorder and i don't want my kids around that. my fiance has another daughter and he can't see her because of his mother and i've been talking to his ex and she going to let us go see her next month

2006-12-27 08:18:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in 10th grade and in all honors classes and I get mostly B's and occasionally an A or too. My dad keeps telling me that I need to get As and that B's are unacceptable.
However when my brother gets B's, my dad doesn't seem to mind as much.

Why do I get all the academic pressure in my family? Does it have something to do with me being the oldest child or something?

2006-12-27 08:16:24 · 10 answers · asked by xxmelz91xx 1 in Family

alright here's the story. my friend liked this guy. i thought he was nice but i liked someone else. then she wrote him a letter proclaiming her love and he said she was a really good friend but he didnt like her like that. i helped comfort her but she said she was over him. then the next year me and him started talking a lot. we talk on the phone for hours at a time every day. we've told each other we love eachother. my friend was very jealous then said she didnt like him anymore, then said she was jealous...again. i dont know what to do. i feel like a bad friend but i mean i love this guy, and she has been very rude to me. what should i do!?!

2006-12-27 08:15:55 · 19 answers · asked by I Love You.....♪♫♪ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am often woken up in the middle of the night by the bed trembling. Upon waking and investigating the situation I find my boyfriend is masturbating. It pisses me off extremely. I dont know how to address it. I have tried to let him know how I feel, but it doesnt seem to faze him. I have also noticed that he wants sex all of the time and has a hard time just being affectionate. This also upsets me.

2006-12-27 08:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by jackiemontgomer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:15:28 · 7 answers · asked by *katie* 1 in Friends

Is it wrong that I don't want my fiance' ex to come to our wedding?
She was his bestfriend for years, and broke his heart twice. I don't like her at all and don't want to see her face again. It's my wedding day and it should be about us.

2006-12-27 08:15:14 · 6 answers · asked by Bride to be 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have noticed gets hard at even the slightest touch. The other night I put my head in his lap when he was sitting on the sofa watching TV and he went hard almost immediately. We have been having a celibate relationship for a few weeks now and I want him to be as committed as I am to religious path we have choosen.

P.S We have been together for a while and previously had a very vigorous sex life.

2006-12-27 08:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-27 08:13:45 · 19 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).

The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

Not spoken for 3 weeks now.(the longest ever!)What she thinking\feeling?Will she EVER speak to me again?What do I do now?

For xmas I sent her a xmas card and a small teddy(saying special friend)-just saying merry xmas and happy new year. I wrote a short message how special and unique she is+ how important the friendship is to me.

Who'd get 1st in touch again?

2006-12-27 08:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends