I love her but I know I am not physically attracted to her, should I keep this from her or let her know how I feel?
2006-12-27 08:22:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, if you really truly loved her, you would think she was the most beautiful girl in the world! Obviously she is just a booty call to you, or you wouldn't even be saying that!
2006-12-27 08:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by quizicalgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is pity that keeps you in the relationship. After all, why did you begin seeing her in the first place? Looks are quite important in any romantic relationship. I advice that you look inside yourself and be honest about the whole thing. If you really do not find her attractive although her personality may be good, then it is time to move on. After all, the longer you keep her around the longer she will continue to be deceived by your false attentions.
True love is a combination of good looks and intellectual compatibility. Anything less is a fantasy.
Sincerely,
Mr. M on "the one you love."
2006-12-27 16:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell her because it is not fair to both of you . physical attraction is part of being in love and is needed for a healthy relationship think of how you would feel if you were in a relationship and that person was not physicaly attracted to you . you would be hurt but you would find some one who loves you for you . let her do the same thing .
2006-12-27 16:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love her but your not in love, and she has a right to know that. Physical attraction is important and you can't ignore the fact that it's not there. You'll be miserable. Tell her how you feel She'll get over it.
2006-12-27 16:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no chance that you could love her physically, then let her know as soon as possible so that she's not expecting it. But if you think that there might be a possibility later on then just keep it to yourself.
2006-12-27 16:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Phillip D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think this will hurt her feelings maybe you should think twice about telling her. If you think she will understand then tell her. At some point you might want to make reference to it. You could ask her if she exercises or has ever thought about exercising and proceed to tell her what she could easily do to begin to exercise. In other words tell her in such a way as it appears you are only trying to help her because you care for her and because you are concerned for her health.
2006-12-27 16:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, why hurt her feelings? Come up with some other excuse to back off the relationship--like tell her you're gay or something.
2006-12-27 16:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What drew you in to her if it wasn't physically attraction. ??????? Only trust honesty and communicate will make your relationship work.
2006-12-27 16:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her she should become physically attiactive to u
2006-12-27 16:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the personality makes them attractive. its not all about looks i understand, but you have to think a little something about her. but you don't want to hurt her, but also not hurting her would be to be honest.
2006-12-27 16:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋