I've known him 4ever and he's really cute and I think I'm falling for him. What do I do?
2006-12-27 08:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If there is any sign that he feels the same than i would go for it. One of the up sides to dating someone that you already know a lot of his bad traits. hard as it is to admit, but yes, we all have some. but this way you wont be faced with as many surprises down the road. of course there is the risk of. if it does not work out then you may loose a really good friend.
or more bluntly:
good guys are hard to find, if you dont have one to call your own, and you have found one. i think it is worth the risk.
2006-12-27 08:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Latex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone thinks differently. these days friends who are really close want to keep that relationship close and wonderful so they choose to be friends. if you wanna know ask yourself these things. when your alone or with friends and something is really strong is on your mind is he the one that is on your mind. when you see him do you blush and get really happy. do you look forward to another day because you feel he's gonna be there? that could be some possible reasons. i think you should tell him that your falling for him but that you dont want anything to happen to the friendship. that you want everything to stay the same between you and him. just be honest. if he's honest with you the best you can do is be honest with him. i have a best friend who i am in total like with right now. and believe me girrrrl he is the most beautiful gorgeous thing i have ever seen. but when he found out one time that i had liked him he got mad at me. and i got really upset at him and even though we are laughing and joking sometimes it still hurts me badly. but it's his descision depsite what i feel. and though i really like him if he doesnt want a relationship i have to respect it. i think you should either tell him if your ready or just keep it to yourself. you dont want anything to happen to the relationship. just be honest when your ready. good luck hope everything works out.
2006-12-27 16:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Nothing will be better than the moments of uncertainty and the hesiation before you try and follow your heart. If you have the slightest hint that he may feel the same just dive in.
Kiss him on New Years, that way if he doesn't feel quite as strong you have the holiday to cover, but nothing says more about your ability to make it with someone than the first kiss. I promise.
I was best friends with this guy for 7 years and one day it hit me, I kissed him, and we celebrated our one year on the 17th of Dec.
Just jump and don't regret.
2006-12-27 16:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM THE TRUTH!!! the truth sets you free sweetie! You might not know it, but he might feel the exact same! So you need to just meet up wit him and tell him how you feel. The only thing is what happens to a lot of friends who end up going out, is that if they break up, it sometimes ruins the friendship. But you cant help how you feel, so do what you think is right.
2006-12-27 16:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by hollicrombie92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think is the best way to do is ask him of what he thinks of you first before you go asking him and if he says something like he likes you...then you can ask him out or something. Or if he says i like you but only a friend then you should start doing the same never go for a guy that only wants to be your friend. Best of luck
2006-12-27 16:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most ppl go through this. i know i hav
u cant do anything. if the guy wasnt close to you, you wouldnt mind askin him out and u couldve jus ignored him
but as he is ur close friend u can try to hav the courage to ask him out but usually it ends up as rejection
but i think you should and do it b4 he gets a gf then you will live in regret for the rest of ur life
so just come out wiv it
2006-12-27 16:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've so been there.. but think about it, he might be falling for you too! You never know... but yeah I'd be dropping hints basically and see how he reacts to them. But yeah i'm a coy person when it comes to this stuff, i just give hints.. nothin too obvious lol
2006-12-27 16:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, does it look like he's into you?
Second, do you want to risk losing your friendship in case he doesn't feel the same way?
If the answers to the above are yes, then tell him how you feel.
2006-12-27 16:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is be open and tell him and if that dose not work spell it out if that dont help just know it my not be the right thing for you if God wants you two to be he will tell you
2006-12-27 16:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ela J Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what's up?
well I myself had the same problem well listen to to this ask him how he feels about you..? ask him if he could ever see you two as a couple in the near future...
2006-12-27 16:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by lizz1689 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋